watching masturbation

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watching masturbation
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Fri, 03-10-2006 - 2:29am
Have you ever asked your lover to masturbate in front of you? Did you like it? Did you want him to cum on you?

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Registered: 03-13-2006
Mon, 03-13-2006 - 10:01am
I love to masterbate while my wife watches, I proposed doing it first and she agreed to watch. Gave me a sense of vulnerability. She masterbates for me now and I love to watch her cum. I would love to film it, but I don't think she would go along, haven't asked her yet.
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Mon, 03-13-2006 - 10:05am
She might agree if she knew that it would be deleted/erased after viewing OR she had control of the memory card. My DH and I ALWAYS erase our films or pictures after viewing because you never know who may find them! Puts us both more at ease.
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Mon, 03-13-2006 - 10:20am
She's not to trusting. May have to see if I can interest her in the heat of the moment. The thought of it is a major turn on to me, it's so hot. Did you have to sneak up on the idea or did it manifest itself?
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Mon, 03-13-2006 - 3:01pm

No, no easing necessary. Both my DH and I enjoy taking pictures and filming but we just don't like the idea of having to protect them after the fact. We want this to be a private activity. It's just too dangerous anymore, particularly if you have children, service people in your home, etc.

But you're right, in the heat of the moment, it's very titillating to see your "parts" etc. from a different perspective.

You might try bringing a mirror into the bedroom first so she can watch herself perform for you. She might decide to try the filming.




Edited 3/13/2006 4:03 pm ET by katmandoo2001
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Mon, 03-13-2006 - 3:53pm

Sunday I opened my eyes saw dh at the foot of the bed watching me while playing with his....I asked if I could help he said just spread your legs for a better aim/view of my... which i did he climbed between my legs all the while playing with his....and asked me to tell him to ejaculate on my....when he started to ejacualte i felt very turned on very feminin.

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Registered: 03-09-2006
Mon, 03-13-2006 - 4:41pm
Hi! I have asked my boyfriend to masturbate in front of me and to be honest, it does in a way turn me on because I guess it gets me started...it didnt really make me feel awkward or anythin...I figure it to be a little lesson. He shows me what he likes and how he likes it. Plus, when he cums, he feels good and so do I. I usually start playing with myself, as I watch him. Sometimes, he ends up cumming all over me and sometimes he just cums. It is all up to him...and sometimes me *wink wink*

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