Watching with toys ? ....
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| Thu, 06-14-2007 - 12:08pm |
Just a little info before I ask a question. I have a fairly new relationship with a man that I am starting to believe I can fall in love with. We waited a little while before taking our relationship to the boudair but it is there now and its everything I could have hoped for!
My question is simple. I would appreciate male opinions and well as female!
In a new relationship like this, how comfortable would the women be using one of their toys on theirselves in front of the new guy (he wants to watch of course) and also from the guys .. how would you feel about a woman (that you are beginning to care about) letting you watch when she masturbates with toys? Its just that we have only spent 3 weekends together (actually together) and I am still a bit on the slightly inhibited side (only because its so new) although I know I will let him watch as he wants to eventually. I just don't want to mess up this relationship because I do really care about him.

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I kind of thought that most guys would love it. And he seems to be one of those guys lol. My one request of him is going to be that he can watch ... but he can't touch me until I do O which tends to take longer with my rabbit than it does with actual i/c with him in the hopes that when I do let him finally touch me he will be mad with desire *grin*. So I have been thinking about it a lot. I know he said he asked his ex to do this and she wouldn't do it (as well as a lot of other things that I WILL do and so far have done for him). I may just give him his own show this weekend when he gets home lol. Its just that our relationship is so new!
Thanks for the encouragement bronco!!
good point ... although I am not the one that brings it up lol. But I wouldn't have asked this question if I was completely comfortable yet. I am on my way there, for sure, but not positive I am there yet.
Thanks for the input!
LOL .. you're welcome. I do aim to please. Not sure when I am going to fulfill this request of the new SO but I will eventually :)
I have to admit though that the more I think about it the more I like the idea :)
i dont know that the newness of the relationship is going to be as much a factor for HIM as it might be for you - I know this topic is somewhat along the lines of what I WANT and asked about in my 'Multi-Tasking' topic I started here yesterday.
I personally would go primal - the whole idea of "Look - Don't Touch" play makes me short of breath in and of itself. That is one of my biggest turn ons ever. Lucky guy!!!
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