Watching with toys ? ....

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Registered: 05-11-2007
Watching with toys ? ....
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Thu, 06-14-2007 - 12:08pm

Just a little info before I ask a question. I have a fairly new relationship with a man that I am starting to believe I can fall in love with. We waited a little while before taking our relationship to the boudair but it is there now and its everything I could have hoped for!

My question is simple. I would appreciate male opinions and well as female!

In a new relationship like this, how comfortable would the women be using one of their toys on theirselves in front of the new guy (he wants to watch of course) and also from the guys .. how would you feel about a woman (that you are beginning to care about) letting you watch when she masturbates with toys? Its just that we have only spent 3 weekends together (actually together) and I am still a bit on the slightly inhibited side (only because its so new) although I know I will let him watch as he wants to eventually. I just don't want to mess up this relationship because I do really care about him.

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Thu, 06-14-2007 - 5:15pm

I know most guys would love to watch this event! If he has already told you he wants to watch, I seriously doubt that you have anything to be shy about .

I think making him "wait" to touch you is also a highly erotic idea, and I'm sure he'll be ready to pop once he gets the chance. I say, "go for it".



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Registered: 03-31-2007
Thu, 06-14-2007 - 5:16pm

"MMMM, Sure I enjoyed the mental picture! Lucky guy!"

Down boy, you're going to run up the water bill (LOL)!!!



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Registered: 03-31-2007
Thu, 06-14-2007 - 5:19pm

Welcome to the board solomandy47. Thanks for joining in. I hope you'll visit June Roll Call and let us get to know you a bit better.



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Registered: 05-22-2007
Thu, 06-14-2007 - 7:04pm

Wow . . . personally, I think being able to watch my partner give herself an orgasm is one of the most erotic things possible to share - PLUS, it's downright educational, as if one pays attention to how SHE makes herself cum, then your partner will be that much better knowing just where and how you like to be touched.

From the sounds of things, it's something HE wants to do. If you're comfortable letting him watch, I'd say go for it . . . the "newness" of your relationship will only ADD to the excitement of what is ALREADY a very erotic thing to share.

And I'm all in favor of setting down the ground rule of "no touching til you complete your "O" before he touches" . . . I agree: that will only make HIM that much more excited!

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Registered: 05-11-2007
Fri, 06-15-2007 - 10:07am

Thanks for all the input. I am not normally shy in bed but I realized that this is something I never did for a man (not with toys anyway) but I have never been shy about touching my body for a lover. This guy is really special to me already and I do want to do something for him that I haven't ever done for anyone else (lol .. not much left to do but this!).

I already told him I would probably be willing to do this and told him the rules (no touching till I tell him he can and he had better not blow before I am done LOL because I am GoINg to want the real thing when I let him touch me) and I think it peaked his interest although he said he didn't know if he could NOT touch me. But I am holding out on that rule at least the first time we try this! I did tell him that it is something I have never actually done for another man too. Let him know how special he is to me!

I'll let you know if I go through with this :)

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Registered: 08-16-2006
Fri, 06-15-2007 - 11:01am
I know I already had to put in a additional water heater,lol


Edited 6/15/2007 11:02 am ET by bronco2006
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Fri, 06-15-2007 - 11:05am

LOL ...

Good Morning Bronco! We were getting a bit talkier about you last night on the Let's iVillage thread. Be sure to check it out ;-)



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Registered: 08-16-2006
Fri, 06-15-2007 - 11:14am
Hmmm, I need to go check this out,lol, my ears were ringing last night!
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Fri, 06-15-2007 - 11:30am

Three words for that:

Hot Hot Hot!

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Registered: 05-11-2007
Fri, 06-15-2007 - 1:00pm
I bet they were !! lol