Watching with toys ? ....

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Registered: 05-11-2007
Watching with toys ? ....
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Thu, 06-14-2007 - 12:08pm

Just a little info before I ask a question. I have a fairly new relationship with a man that I am starting to believe I can fall in love with. We waited a little while before taking our relationship to the boudair but it is there now and its everything I could have hoped for!

My question is simple. I would appreciate male opinions and well as female!

In a new relationship like this, how comfortable would the women be using one of their toys on theirselves in front of the new guy (he wants to watch of course) and also from the guys .. how would you feel about a woman (that you are beginning to care about) letting you watch when she masturbates with toys? Its just that we have only spent 3 weekends together (actually together) and I am still a bit on the slightly inhibited side (only because its so new) although I know I will let him watch as he wants to eventually. I just don't want to mess up this relationship because I do really care about him.

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Registered: 10-28-2006
Mon, 06-18-2007 - 8:13pm

Hi I'm a woman.

Dh and I just got our first toy last week his favorite part is watching me
with it. It makes him wild. i love it I love that toy to. Grin. after reading threw
the posts it sounds like it's a great idea. I've done the no touch thing not with a toy
but OS that's his favorite I'll have to try it with a toy. Love that idea. I would go for it if your comftrable. He will love you more! lol.

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Registered: 03-11-2005
Tue, 06-19-2007 - 5:51am
Last night DW used a Pocket Rocket on her clitoris while she gave me a BJ. She came 3 times in just a few minutes. It also really turns me on to watch her use a realistic dildo. I love to watch it go in and out of her vagina while she gives me a BJ. We fantasize that we are having a threesome.
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Registered: 03-31-2007
Tue, 06-19-2007 - 7:34am
Hi Kareese, It's nice to see you back -- and to see that you finally got a TOY!!!!


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Registered: 05-11-2007
Tue, 06-19-2007 - 8:25am

Oh yeah ... go for it! So far I haven't gotten to do it now he's going to be gone for a week or more driving for his job. The only reason we haven't done it is because every time we start talking about it he gets so turned on he takes me whereever we happen to be LOL.

So'k though, the next time he is home I may give him a 'present' *grin*.

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Registered: 11-13-2006
Tue, 06-19-2007 - 9:53am

I did it for the 1st time in my last relationship & it was incredible. Of course, it was ALSO my 1st time WITH toys, or orgasming! (needless to say, he taught me a LOT!)

It was pretty scary at 1st, but he literally walked me through using a vibe (clitoral, which he bought me as a suprise after mentioning I may "need one") & it took a little while for me to get used to using it in front of him - but once I did, it was incredible for both of us. He was really patient & loving & interested truly, in ME learning about my OWN body. We are no longer together, but his lessons live on! :)

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Registered: 05-11-2007
Tue, 06-19-2007 - 12:07pm
Good for him and YOU! I wish I had known more about toys at a much younger age. I didn't get my first one till I was almost 40!
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Registered: 10-28-2006
Tue, 06-19-2007 - 7:21pm

It's good to be back!!!!!
Yes I got a toy!!! Hehehhe.
I love my butterfly vibe. It does the job almost to well! lol.
Dh is no longer intimidated by toys yay. He loves when I use it
during ic to he likes feeling the viberation. I love the viberation! girn.
so happy! DH said we got a toy now the freak is coming out!! I said bring it on!!

kareese.

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Registered: 12-22-2005
Tue, 06-19-2007 - 8:26pm

Yeah wisdom does come with age!


Man, if I knew then what I know now!!


And yes, I'd do it (use toy) too!!


And you both sound lucky to me!

 

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