Watching your partner masturbate

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Registered: 08-25-2005
Watching your partner masturbate
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Fri, 08-26-2005 - 5:39pm

I would love to watch my wife play with herself and bring herself to orgasm. I suppose this is the voyeur in me who wants to see her writhe and moan while playing with herself porno style. She is semi open to the idea and says she will treat me one of these days. I bought her a 'Rabbit Pearl' vibe a while back to lend a helping hand but am still waiting...

Any gals out there who pleasure themselves in front of their partners, for their pleasure? Please share any juicy ideas on where/what position/toys/etc..

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Fri, 08-26-2005 - 5:50pm

We've both engaged in self pleasuring many times, sometimes me, sometimes him, sometimes both of us.


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Registered: 06-17-2005
Fri, 08-26-2005 - 9:19pm
i love watching my SO watch me...... He starts it... it usually begins with his lips on my nipples, his tongue circling my nipple, he gently takes my hand in his and works his way to my vagina, where he begins massaging each individual finger, until he relaxes my whole hand and leaves it on or near my clit. The first time he did this I just left it there, he then returned to my finger and used it as if it were his.... oh my..... all the while I am arroused by his tongue on my breast. what an experience....
I am better now, he leads me and i follow. brings us both the best followed by unbelievable intercourse...gotta go now, he's reading as i write. he wants my fingers walking.....
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Registered: 03-11-2005
Sat, 08-27-2005 - 4:24am
My wife and I always engage in mutual masterbation as a part of foreplay. We love to watch each other. Usually it is just foreplay, but sometimes we will both cum while masterbating. She loves for me to cum on her boobs. We both really get wild while masterbating.
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Registered: 07-12-2005
Sat, 08-27-2005 - 11:59am
I have the rabbit vibe as well, and I've used it several times while dh watched, and he's used it on me as well. I've used my hands while he watched too. It really depends on the mood we are in. I didn't do any masturbation in front of him for a while, I had to build up the confidence to do it. The first time I tried it, we had the best sex, so I figured he must have really enjoyed it. I enjoyed that he was so turned on by it!
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Registered: 08-25-2005
Tue, 09-20-2005 - 6:20pm

tdmsgirl, You mentioned...
"i love watching my SO watch me...... He starts it... it usually begins with his lips on my nipples, his tongue circling my nipple, he gently takes my hand in his and works his way to my vagina, where he begins massaging each individual finger, until he relaxes my whole hand and leaves it on or near my clit. The first time he did this I just left it there, he then returned to my finger and used it as if it were his.... oh my..... all the while I am arroused by his tongue on my breast. what an experience....
I am better now, he leads me and i follow. brings us both the best followed by unbelievable intercourse...gotta go now, he's reading as i write. he wants my fingers walking....."

Thank You. That nearly worked. The nipple play with the tounge, and finger massaging certainly got her attention, and she enjoyed it.....but, she did not play with her clit..But, the intercourse afterwards was indeed fantastic. I guess I'll have to keep trying with this one, and hopefully one day...

Any other tips from you or anyone else would be greatly appreciated by both of us..

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Registered: 08-25-2005
Tue, 09-20-2005 - 6:24pm
She loves to watch me masturbate, and cum over her boobs after we have been at it for a while....i.e after we have had a session of oral, and intercourse. I love it as well.....visually fantastic. I just need to find a way to get her to play with herself with fingers, toys, anything....and make herself orgasm. I'd be more than happy to assist with a finger or two, or mouth, tongue....
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Registered: 08-25-2005
Tue, 09-20-2005 - 6:35pm

I guess building up the confidence to do it is the key. She knows that I will enjoy it greatly as we have discussed it several times...

Since you overcame the confidence issue, is ther any thing I can do to play along and get her to play with herself ? Is there any particular way of asking her to do it, or under particular circumstances that I should suggest it ? Ahhh...the mind is the biggest sex organ.

The poor rabbit is not getting much use...she says she prefers my penis over the vibe toy, and if I move her hand towards her clit, she invariably moves it away to grab a hold of my penis..

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Registered: 09-22-2005
Thu, 09-22-2005 - 3:01pm
My boyfriend doesn't like to watch me I guess it makes him feel like he isn't getting me off so I have to do it myself. Anyone ever seen the secretary where she bends over the desk and he jacks off and he cums on her butt? He won't do it for me either....hmmph
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Registered: 08-06-2004
Thu, 09-22-2005 - 4:34pm

I dont really find the idea of watching my husband masturbate very appealing so thats out.

But I enjoy masturbating in front of him/for him. He seems to like it alot too. He doesnt care to watch me do it with toys tho - Just hands.

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Registered: 10-06-2005
Thu, 10-06-2005 - 3:10pm

I use to do this with an old BF and loved it. My DH gets to impatient and doesn't want to watch he wants to do it!!! I but I think its totally erotic. I love watching him masturbate also.

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