Watching your partner masturbate

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Registered: 08-25-2005
Watching your partner masturbate
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Fri, 08-26-2005 - 5:39pm

I would love to watch my wife play with herself and bring herself to orgasm. I suppose this is the voyeur in me who wants to see her writhe and moan while playing with herself porno style. She is semi open to the idea and says she will treat me one of these days. I bought her a 'Rabbit Pearl' vibe a while back to lend a helping hand but am still waiting...

Any gals out there who pleasure themselves in front of their partners, for their pleasure? Please share any juicy ideas on where/what position/toys/etc..

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Registered: 08-25-2005
Thu, 10-06-2005 - 4:46pm

I once asked her, which part of me masturbating was her favorite, other then the climax of course. Well, here is what she wants me to do, and I oblige gladly.

Lube up with baby oil. Holding my erect penis firmly at the base with one hand (Right hand in my case), I form an 'O' with the index finger and thumb of the other hand, and 'milk' the penis, from the base up to the base of the head, but not all the way up. (I would cum in no time if I started stimulating the head). Once you play around you'll know how firm the grip should be for each hand. The idea is to keep the penis as hard as possible..What she loves is the very hard glistening penis, fully engorged, with veins bulging, and of course the sight of me watching me get myself off. She does take over every now and then, toward the end..

She is open about me doing it but she will not pleasure herself for my benefit..

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Registered: 11-22-2004
Fri, 10-07-2005 - 12:10pm
Lol, I just can't touch myself in front of my guy!!! He has no problem whatsoever very purposefully jerking himself off on me -- he did that just last night -- but even though I know it would be perfectly ok with him, I just can't pleasure myself with him around!
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Registered: 09-09-2005
Sat, 10-08-2005 - 10:47am

I've been w/my SO for almost 3 years and she never used any toys with or w/o me and never masturbated in front of me either. But recently I bought her a vibe and the experience was amazing for the both of us. To be honest, she didn't last more than 2 minutes after I first put that vibe on her clit. I was rubbing it with some pressure against her clit while at the same time fingering her, and she lost it, she was done really in a matter of 2 minutes.

It was so erotic because for a very long time, I've been asking her to masturbate in front of me, but she always told me that she was very discreet about it, and that she just didn't want to do it with me there. But this time was different, as soon as that vibe hit her, she lost all of her inhibitions and let loose and it was very satisfying for the both of us, it turned me on like never before. I can't wait for the next time, her facial expressions and moaning are enough to have me coming out of my pants. Pun intended!

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Registered: 10-10-2005
Mon, 10-10-2005 - 11:42pm
My partner and I love to watch each other. The first time he asked me, I was a little nervous, but when I am with him, I seem to lose all inhibitions...I don't think I would have ever done this with my ex. So when I started, and I saw how turned on he was, I just relaxed and asked him to do the same for me...it was awesome...led to the best sex ever...sometimes we just forego regular sex and just watch each other get off. We haven't used any toys yet (he wants me to...just need to purchase). We've done it just about everywhere...in our vehicles, at his office, wherever we can get the privacy. As for positions, I usually lie back and spread my legs for him so he has a good view...he likes to talk to me and tell me how turned on his is by watching me, he asks me how it feels, he tells me what he wants me to do to him etc... I also sometimes will rub myself while he is penetrating me...he absolutely loves this...especially if he feels my fingers touching him at the same time. A few times I let him watch me in the shower (using the water from the hand held shower head and once I was able to bring myself to the big one while he entered from behind. Your wife doesn't know what she's missing. It allows me to have multiple orgasms :-)
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Registered: 10-18-2001
Tue, 10-11-2005 - 7:00pm

>>I also sometimes will rub myself while he is penetrating me...he absolutely loves this...especially if he feels my fingers touching him at the same time.<<

Yep. I'll second that. It's very erotic and the touch of fingers against the shaft of a penis feels great. My partner sometimes cups her vulva so that my penis slides between her fingers and that also feels awesome.

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