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| Mon, 07-04-2005 - 12:39pm |
Well, most of you on this board know that I'm an incest survivor and was having trouble with intercourse with my boyfriend. Well, last night we took care of that problem. I was so much more relaxed than I've ever been before. He wanted me to come so badly, but it didn't happen. It still felt good though, especially just being so close. He didn't come either, but my guy is very good with control and he'll last for a really long time. It's kinda frustrating though, because I want to feel him come during intercourse. I guess really that would be up to him. Anyway, we were slap worn out after a while and had to call it a day because he had to be at work very early this morning. But once we discovered it was going all the way in, and I wasn't in any pain, we took advantage of the situation. We experimented with several positions. I'm still learning the basics of everything, so it was kinda like a class! He was like, "Baby, you gotta move your legs that way...move down a little...there ya go...alright, now do this..." lol. He's so good to me though. I was so awkward, and he doesn't make me feel dopey or anything. Tomorrow is our one year anniversary!!!!!! I'm so excited. We're going back to the coffeehouse where we had our first date. I'm sorry if I sound corny, guys, I'm just in love.

No, you don't sound corny at all and you certainly are
Congrats on your anniversary and taking that next step intimately. We all start at square one sexually so don't put undue pressure on yourself.
Enjoy the moments and you'll figure it out together. Just don't hesitate to tell HIM what's working for you and what isn't!