wearing bra during sex

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Registered: 05-14-2005
wearing bra during sex
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Sat, 05-14-2005 - 10:24pm
Okay, so I recently started seeing this guy...the first time we had sex, he pulled my bra partially off, but not the whole way, I went to take it all the way off and he told me not to, thought it was sexy. So, I kept it on....never had a guy want that before, have any of you? I thought it was a little wierd myself.

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Registered: 10-13-2004
Sat, 05-14-2005 - 11:38pm
I've had sex in my underwear before. It's not weird or unusual. And it's a great way to make better use of all those little bits that we pay a fortune for!
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Registered: 07-22-2004
Sun, 05-15-2005 - 8:29am

I never thought of it for myself, but YES I've heard of it before...just like I enjoy viewing the wife with teaser outfits than naked at times.

I'm not going to try and make sense of it all regarding why different people like different things, but the FYI from what I've read on these boards is that this really isn't that weird or uncommon.

 

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sun, 05-15-2005 - 2:32pm

Goodness, we've had sex totally nude, partially clothed, underwear on and off and just underwear pulled down while fully clothed. We've done it every way that can be done, I think.

Some people find sex wearing clothes extremely erotic, knowing that they are as close to each other as they can get from the waist down but seemingly innocent and chaste from the waist up.

Your guy likes the look of a bra half on and there's nothing weird about that. It's just unfamiliar to you. Maybe it just underscores the urgency of the moment.

Somewhere, at some point in his past, he had a fantasy, saw a video or picture or had an experience that cemented this turn on for him.

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Registered: 04-01-2003
Sun, 05-15-2005 - 5:38pm

Sure! Clothing half-off (especially lingerie) *is* sexy! Straps falling down just so, a bit of lace and satin, parts partially hidden...besides, why should pretty lingerie spend most of it's time on the floor? (lol)

I've done it with pretty lingerie, a sexy little slip thingie or a camisole. And a few times when we've gone somewhere dressed up and I've worn garters and stockings underneath, I wear the panties *outside* the garter straps...so they can be slipped off and the garter or teddy, stockings, etc can be left on during sex when we get home. Or on the way home ;)

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Registered: 10-18-2001
Sun, 05-15-2005 - 10:21pm
We've had sex with clothes on, clothes off, lingerie still on and partially off - the whole gamut. I love lingerie on a woman anyway. Making love to a woman with some nice lingerie still on is very erotic - my partner enjoys it too. Makes her feel sexier too apparently. Couldn't tell you exactly why... it just is. So No, I don't think that it's terribly unusual. Somewhere, sometime in his life there was something he saw or did or watched that made him think that leaving a bra half on was sexy.
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Registered: 07-10-2003
Sun, 05-15-2005 - 11:27pm

When I found out my guy didn't care about sexy nighties, I was almost embarrassed that I tried so hard.

But one night he pushed me up onto the hood of my car, half undressed me, and we had THE BEST sex of my life in a park in the middle of the night...

Maybe he likes the intensity of moment...?

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Registered: 07-22-2004
Sun, 05-15-2005 - 11:37pm

How could anyone not miss those kind of spur of the moment days? ;]

Darn work schedules!

 

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Registered: 10-18-2001
Sun, 05-15-2005 - 11:42pm

Yeah, a friend of mine knows that I love lingerie and she asked me for some advice on what to get as a treat for her b/f. She didn't have any sexy lingerie apparently. I gave her a run-down on what I thought most guys would appreciate and added that different guys liked different things.

I heard later that she had worn all the gear one night - garterbelts, stockings etc. and he never said a thing. When she asked what he thought, he asked "About what?". Then he shrugged and said that it was nice but that it got in the way! Not the reaction that she had been expecting. LOL!

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Registered: 10-06-2003
Mon, 05-16-2005 - 1:00am
Ilike it whem my wife leaves things on during sex.it leaves something to the imagination and it is very sexy.im a garters and thong guy myself
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Registered: 12-28-2004
Mon, 05-16-2005 - 5:57am

Weird ?

Do you know there are living breathing people in this world who think that having sex totally nude is Kinky as h

Hey let him be, suzy. Have you considered that he prefers a larger boobs and would rather imagine yours to be so inside your bra ?

And if you think it is weird, just take it for a kinky variant and let it turn you on than off ?

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