wearing bra during sex

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Registered: 05-14-2005
wearing bra during sex
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Sat, 05-14-2005 - 10:24pm
Okay, so I recently started seeing this guy...the first time we had sex, he pulled my bra partially off, but not the whole way, I went to take it all the way off and he told me not to, thought it was sexy. So, I kept it on....never had a guy want that before, have any of you? I thought it was a little wierd myself.
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Registered: 05-15-2005
Mon, 05-16-2005 - 6:51am
I think it can be just as sexy to do it partially clothed as without, or even when one person is totally naked and the other is not (when one gives the other oral for example). It also turns me on to no end when DW wears nothing but heels. I don't consider this wierd. It helps add variety and spice to our sex life.
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Registered: 11-26-2004
Mon, 05-16-2005 - 1:46pm

DH sometimes likes for me to wear underwear and bra during sex. He loves to perform oral on the underwear while I'm still wearing them and likes to alternate by pushing the crotch aside. We've even had intercourse with my undies still on. ;-)




Edited 5/16/2005 1:54 pm ET ET by rain_dancer_iam
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 05-16-2005 - 2:05pm
I don't think it's necessary to insult the OP simply because she doesn't understand this particular turnon! Insinuating that her breasts might be too small for his taste is insulting.
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Registered: 09-25-2004
Mon, 05-16-2005 - 3:48pm
My husband likes it when I have a skirt on..(from time to time) He says it feels dirty to come home from work (when DD isn't here), grab me by the hand, drag me into the bedroom, and "rape" me..(I always know its coming...Especially when I call him at work to say to him "My booster heater isn't firing up right..I need somebody to come over and give it a little tweak for me")..But, I prefer to have my bra off. For some odd reason, it just feels better to let these puppies fly..Doesn't matter what he finds sexy, sometimes comfort is what counts.
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Registered: 07-14-2003
Mon, 05-16-2005 - 7:26pm
My SO also likes me to dress up for sex. He said nudity is ok but its like an unwrapped Christmas Gift.
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Tue, 05-17-2005 - 3:46am


Somebody said that my message to you was insulting and that I was insinuating that you had small breasts.

I hope you don't subscribe to these views, but if you thought so too, then my apologies to you. Anyway you did think it sexy so I am sure you understood the turn on.

And i must explain that it was never my intention to be insulting. Being an American, it might be news to you that in some Indian villages there are still women who think that having sex fully nude is being extremely immodest and slutty. In this same country there are women in the big cities who have sex only fully nude and think it kinky to have sex with a bra on. "Kinky" itself is tricky - for some being kinky is no-no, for others kinky is a big turn on. So there are many perspectives on this issue of having sex with some piece of clothing on, and I was merely pointing it out.

It never crossed my mind that having small breasts could be a matter of shame. I am yet to see a lot of supermodels sporting 44DDs. DW has small ones but that does not make me less turned on by her. But on the other hand she thinks nothing of wearing falsies with certain clothes because in those particular clothes, larger breasts look better. So it even depends on the situation, not just the person.

Just a few scribblings to explain my post. But the bottomline is there was no idea to be insulting and no insinuations. Your reply would reassure me.

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Tue, 05-17-2005 - 6:51am
Now why was that necessary???
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Registered: 08-11-2001
Tue, 05-17-2005 - 8:09am

You new boy friend is not being unusual at all. I love to see my wife in a nice fitting bra. It does not have to be super sexy or anything like that, it just needs to flatter her figure.

She loves to wear a bra during intercourse. We typicaly start intercourse with me nude and her wearing a bra. As we progress I slowly expose each of her breasts. She says that she finds my fingers moveing across the bra and her breasts to be super stimulating. We have had times when my penis is in her but she orgasems as I explore and slowly remove her breasts from her bra. She seems to realy enjoy have the material from the cup of the bra slide across her nipples. It makes her shiver and gasp.

A bra can be great fun during sex.

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Registered: 03-30-2000
Tue, 05-17-2005 - 9:07am
Sexy lingerie on a woman is like she's gift-wrapping herself to her man. Leaving some of it in place says to me (a) she wants it enough to not waste time stripping off and (b) she wants to keep the eye-candy going for me. A win-win situation.
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Registered: 11-26-2004
Tue, 05-17-2005 - 11:13am
It can feel like gift wrapping as well(bows, stiff lace, snaps in the wrong place). ;-) Luckily, DH is a low-maintenance type of man...he finds my normal everyday underwear and outwear(or giftwrapping if you wish) as sexy as heck. He says that I could wear a potato sack and still be sexy in it. tee hee One thing I love about him is he's easy to please.
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