wearing bra during sex

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Registered: 05-14-2005
wearing bra during sex
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Sat, 05-14-2005 - 10:24pm
Okay, so I recently started seeing this guy...the first time we had sex, he pulled my bra partially off, but not the whole way, I went to take it all the way off and he told me not to, thought it was sexy. So, I kept it on....never had a guy want that before, have any of you? I thought it was a little wierd myself.

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Registered: 11-26-2004
Tue, 05-17-2005 - 11:29am
Yikes...that doesn't sound too complimentary if you ask me! If DH said that to me, I'd tell him sorry, but I have to return the gift. ;-)
Imagination is more important than knowledge." (Albert Einstein )
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Tue, 05-17-2005 - 12:01pm
I understand that what might look good on you ladies doesn't necessarily *feel* great. Trust me, I'm more interested in the woman than the wardrobe. But her 'dressing up for sex' means she *wants* to push my buttons and she's willing to go to lengths for it; definite ego-booster, eh?
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Registered: 11-26-2004
Tue, 05-17-2005 - 12:38pm
I hopefully always push his buttons, regardless of what I'm wearing. ;-)
Imagination is more important than knowledge." (Albert Einstein )
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 05-17-2005 - 12:43pm

My DH likes lingerie, and I do have some comfortable yet sexy stuff, but it never stays on very long so it seems a little pointless for me.

And on the flip side of this subject, I wouldn't want my DH to wear something that was very uncomfortable or embarrassing, just for me. Seems like it would be counterproductive to the goal.

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Registered: 11-26-2004
Tue, 05-17-2005 - 12:59pm
Dh has never dressed for sex(unless you include socks only ;-). I don't know, maybe it's just me, but I feel sexy no matter what. Sexiness is an attitude...at least that's my take on it. ;-)


Edited 5/17/2005 1:18 pm ET ET by rain_dancer_iam
Imagination is more important than knowledge." (Albert Einstein )
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Registered: 01-02-2005
Tue, 05-17-2005 - 1:53pm

Sometimes "less" is "more". Seeing part of a breast and the nipple might excite him more than seeing two naked boobs. Just a thought.

Personally I am all for totally-naked sex altho occasionally I have had intercourse thru the leghole of her underpants.

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Registered: 01-02-2005
Tue, 05-17-2005 - 2:01pm

"puppies" ?? Now there is a word for breasts that I have not heard in a very long time ! Thank you !! Quite arousing thought.

Do you have King Charles Cavalier Spaniels ? Or Great Danes ? Or Pointers ?

Oh, this is SO erotic !

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Registered: 11-26-2004
Tue, 05-17-2005 - 3:49pm
I with you on the full nakedness. When dh gets an erection and I can see it through his clothing...it's arousing, but not half as arousing as him in full exposure -- boys and all.
Imagination is more important than knowledge." (Albert Einstein )
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 05-17-2005 - 4:16pm

What? No leather thong or chaps? Now, I'm disappointed, Rain! LOL!

Sexiness IS a state of mind!

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Registered: 01-02-2005
Tue, 05-17-2005 - 7:57pm
My first DW liked the look of the "tent" and wanted to be dry humped for ages before she would "release" me. Sometimes in the very early days I would penetrate her still in my briefs and cum but then I learned to slip out thru the fly first. She was obsessive about wanting to do me partly dressed with her totally naked.

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