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| Sat, 07-23-2005 - 2:13pm |
Sometimes when i have sex with my boyfriend it feels like i need to pee. Is this normal? Lastnight we had sex, and some wee came out! It was embarrassing. Has anyone else ever done this?
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If you empty your bladder before sex, then there is no urine.....and you won't urinate. If you read the information at www.the-clitoris.com, you might understand it better. Many women ejaculate, and it's "normal"......and nothing to be embarassed about. There should never be anything embarassing about what happens during sex. It's perfectly normal to leak fluids, to make noises, even pass gas. It's part of being sexual.
The "feeling" of needing to urinate is usually an oncoming orgasm....because everything in your genital area is engorged with blood, including the urethra, hence the "feeling". If you "go with" the feeling, you will not urinate (you can't if your bladder is empty) but you will probably have an orgasm. Also, FE isn't an orgasm, and it doesn't feel like an orgasm. Sometimes it happens during an orgasm, sometimes it just happens without an orgasm. There is a definite difference in the smell of urine and that of an ejaculation. Urine has a distinctive odor, particularly after it's dried on the bedding. FE does NOT have an odor.
whoops, sorry, missed your questions to my reply...
Yes, if he doesn't mind, "go with the flow" :) And be glad he appreciates the natural workings of your body.
As others have said, go to the bathroom first...you can't pee everywhere if you don't have anything to pee with. And a towel can take care of the rest.
(note: if you are prone to urinary tract infections, I do believe it is suggested to urinate AFTER sex to help flush out the urinary tract. So as always, take advice as appropriate for your situation, and adjust as needed.)
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