Whar are turnoffs for you?

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Registered: 06-04-2004
Whar are turnoffs for you?
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Fri, 09-29-2006 - 7:12am

Hi All,

What are the things that make you turnoff?

Mens what are turnsoff for you in women?

Womens what are turnsoff for you in men?

I m 29,man,For me turnoffs are:

1)Hair on womens legs,arms,chest,nipple,any where other than underarm,pubic area.

2)Too much bulky(fat) body,big belly.It is no problem if she is little fat with good figure.

3)Hanging brests,without shape,very lagre or very very small brests.

4)Untidy body,natural body smell or sweat is really turnon but bad smell due to not taking care of body from long time or from infection is really turn off.

5)Bad mouth odour,uncleaned teeath.

6)unclean,cracked foot,usually foot tell howmuch one takecare of their body.

expecting your responses...

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Registered: 12-20-2004
Fri, 09-29-2006 - 2:39pm
gana, sounds like to me you only want to date playboy playmates,or at least women around 23 years old. Most "real" women have sagging breasts, or a little belly by the time they hit their 30`s. Large or small breasts should make no difference if you are in love with the woman...Ofcourse, if you only date women for sex, then you are allowed to be as shallow as you please. I will agree that clean is best.
To answer your question, lack of enthusiasm is the biggest turn off to me.
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Registered: 04-17-2003
Fri, 09-29-2006 - 3:14pm

My turnoffs, as a guy? I would say uncleaniness, skinny builds, arrogance, Conservatism and most of all; No sense of humor.

For me, sense of humor and a good hearty laugh is a huge turn-on.

 

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 09-29-2006 - 11:06pm
it turns me off when men trim their chest hair. also don't like when people are not open with their sexuality (i.e. have a limited routine that they don't deviate from). cleanliness is an obvious must, however, it turns me off when men are obsessed with cleanliness. i like them generally clean, but not afraid to get dirty. also, don't like too much cologne and hair product. another thing that turns me off is men with bubble butts. lastly, i don't like when they feel too soft, cause that reminds me of being with a girl. oh, and one more thing, hate it when they are overly passive.
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Registered: 10-18-2001
Sat, 09-30-2006 - 2:05am

>>another thing that turns me off is men with bubble butts.<<

LOL! What's a bubble butt look like on a man?

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Registered: 10-18-2001
Sat, 09-30-2006 - 2:10am

Since we're mentioning a sense of humour - that's a must. I'd rather it not be a slap-stick in-your-face practical joke kinda humour though. I prefer a good but slightly dryer sense of humour.

Farting in bed or during sex will turn me off faster than a fast thing having a fast day. I know it happens but it just switches me off all the same.

Less'see now. What else?

I vastly prefer a trimmed pubic area. Bushy is not good for me :-)

Cleanliness is important. Must be reasonably freshly washed and clean.

Lack of interest or enthusiasm.

A woman that feels obliged to have sex. Big turn-off. I want to be wanted, not put up with.

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Registered: 06-11-2003
Sat, 09-30-2006 - 6:42am
Bad oral hygiene. Why is it so hard for some people to brush & floss on a regular basis?
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 10-02-2006 - 12:56am
The same as it looks like on a woman. I see them every now and then. It just reminds me of a girl so it neutralizes my sex drive.
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Registered: 01-27-2006
Mon, 10-02-2006 - 9:11am

Turnoffs: No short men. Don't really like to date men under 6 feet, though if he is really luscious I might reconsider, but it would be difficult.

I like him to have a good set of teeth. Must have a good smile.

I've gotten into a habit of dating younger men. Don't like paunches or bald spots.

Don't like flabby, pasty thighs. Nice, streamlined thighs with a bit of muscle definition are nice to look at.

Short stubby fingers are a total turn off.

No big noses.

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Registered: 11-26-2004
Mon, 10-02-2006 - 9:56am

For me...the biggest turn-off is bad hygiene....particularly of the mouth. There is no excuse not to visit a dentist every six months. I love how men will spend inordinate amounts of energy "detailing" a car...they will have every contraption needed to get into every crevice to "shine" it up, but completely neglect a well-needed "power-wash" to get to the compounded accumulation of "dirt" and "grime" that has built up over "YEARS!" Your mouth is one of the most erotic and sensual organs of the body (if you like intimacy and sex that is). It is such an important aspect of hygiene. Crooked teeth...not a problem....but neglected teeth and gums....a big one. You could be a perfect speciman of a man, but bad oral hygiene, is a no-no.

Other than bodily and oral hygiene, "personality" traits (arrogance and conceitness in particuarl), are the biggest turn offs for me. My fantasy man is of course "up there" in requirements, but with respect to what I find attractive in real men--it's a wide array--I even surprise myself sometimes! ;-)

Imagination is more important than knowledge." (Albert Einstein )
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Registered: 06-04-2004
Tue, 10-03-2006 - 1:29am
No...i m not particular about waht I said.But that are in facts that affects sexdrive.I know in real life womens have little hanging brests,belly.but it should not be over hanging,over fatty belly,it should be accoring to their age.I dont really like porn start brests,rock hard..i just like real normal women.But cleanness is must.These are all physical things..But attitude also importent in sex.It would be definately turn off she is not enthusiastic,active while sex.I want to feel wanted by women.It should be like she is having just sake of having sex or just to satisfy me.If she simply lie down without any reaction will be turn off.She should show some reaction ither by body or by talk(mostly talking dirty,or guiding me to want to do,what she likes,moaning)

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