What about anal sex?
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What about anal sex?
| Mon, 07-26-2004 - 3:32pm |
My guy wants to try anal sex but I'm a little scared to try that. I've always been open to try almost everything except that but I want to fulfill his desires. I'm just wondering if it's a risk i'm taking in having anal sex. Can someone help me in some info about the pros and cons of anal sex??

http://www.sexuality.org/l/incoming/analrule.html
Personally, I'm not a big fan of it. I think what I like most about it is the kink factor. For me it feels intense, but not good or bad. It is my understanding that if not done correctly it can do some serious damage, including ripping of the internal tissue which may lead to infection and more commonly hemerroids (sp?).
I think you ought to wait until you've given it more thought and research it a bit more to put your fears to rest and THEN reconsider it. But any sexual act should be mutually desired and anticipated by BOTH of you. IF you're nervous and skeptical during THIS act, it could cause pain and damage.
Pros
Feels good
Intensifies orgasm
Adds a new act that we can switch things up with to avoid boredom
Cons
Can be uncomfortbale if I get too over eager and get too vigorous too quick
Lots of farting for a few minutes afterward due to air being pushed in
Need to do more clean up then we would after regular sex
Leticia
If you're not interested, say no. He'll live.
I've tried it, and it's something I could live without.