What about Cyber Sex?

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What about Cyber Sex?
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Tue, 05-15-2007 - 4:55pm

Do you consider it cheating?

Do you feel differently about with/without a cam?

Have you ever participated with your SO?

Would you ever cyber with a stranger?

How do you think your SO would feel if you cybered?

Have you ever caught a partner having cyber sex?

Do you have any other thoughts about cyber sex?



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Tue, 05-15-2007 - 5:33pm

Do you consider it cheating?
~You know I'm really unsure about that topic. I think that as long as you keep it confined to the computer there is nothing wrong with it. That's just my opinion though!~

Do you feel differently about with/without a cam?
~I think it would be more like cheating with a webcam!~

Have you ever participated with your SO?
~We are always around each other so no~

Would you ever cyber with a stranger?
~I already have~

How do you think your SO would feel if you cybered?
~My SO really didn't say much when I told him. I could tell he didn't like it but he didn't say anything~

Have you ever caught a partner having cyber sex?
~No~

Do you have any other thoughts about cyber sex?
~It's fun!~

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Tue, 05-15-2007 - 5:34pm
What about your thoughts Misty?
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Tue, 05-15-2007 - 10:34pm

Do you consider it cheating? I think it depends on the relationship and the situation. Some people can be open about this, but both partners should agree it's okay. Also, I think it would be easier to agree if it wasn't with the same person -- as that would lead to the opportunity for an attachment.

Do you feel differently about with/without a cam? Not sure. It definitely makes it more personal, but again, I think it would depend on the relationship and the situation.

Have you ever participated with your SO? No.

Would you ever cyber with a stranger? Not sure.

How do you think your SO would feel if you cybered? He would be interested in it if we could cyber together, and okay with it as long as it didn't go too far -- as in becoming attached to other people.

Have you ever caught a partner having cyber sex? No.

Do you have any other thoughts about cyber sex? I think it is interesting, but potentially opens a lot of dangerous doors. It's a little difficult to really think about it seriously since it isn't something that even existed when I was single. It's not really anything that I have been exposed to, other than to learn about it. I don't think the average person would want their SO cybering with others.



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Tue, 05-15-2007 - 10:54pm

Do you consider it cheating?---I think so, but at the same time kinda not

Do you feel differently about with/without a cam?---Yes, that would definitly be cheating in my book.

Have you ever participated with your SO?---No...we should..Hmmmmmm

Would you ever cyber with a stranger?---No

How do you think your SO would feel if you cybered?---I think he would be hurt.

Have you ever caught a partner having cyber sex?---No

Do you have any other thoughts about cyber sex?---Not really, I could see where someone wouldn't consider it cheating, but at the same time if my hubby did it and I found out I would be very upset about it.

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Wed, 05-16-2007 - 1:13pm

Do you consider it cheating? yes I feel it is cheating.

Do you feel differently about with/without a cam? I feel that it is with or w/o a web cam.

Have you ever participated with your SO? no..

Would you ever cyber with a stranger? no..

How do you think your SO would feel if you cybered? she would hurt..

Have you ever caught a partner having cyber sex? no.

Do you have any other thoughts about cyber sex? I really believe that even though this isn't a physical affair, definitely an emotional affair, and I believe any time you direct attention away from your SO, it is a a form of cheating..

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Wed, 05-16-2007 - 1:26pm
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Wed, 05-16-2007 - 11:26pm
After reading this post last night I thought it would be kinda neat to cyber with my hubby....neither of us can get on a computer at work so we would have to do it at home...we have a couple laptops so one of us would have to go in the other room.
He said...Why would I do that when you're here and we can have real sex??....so I guess I'll never have cyber sex...LOL
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Thu, 05-17-2007 - 6:28am
That's funny Dee. DH and I also talked about it last night, and he thought it might be fun to try. I doubt we ever will because he doesn't use the computer often at all, but it was fun to talk about.


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Thu, 05-17-2007 - 2:28pm

Do you consider it cheating? Yes, I do ...unless it is openly accepted by all invovled in relationship.

Do you feel differently about with/without a cam? Its worse!

Have you ever participated with your SO? Sort of....cyber forplay

Would you ever cyber with a stranger? No, I sorta did already...it was on sided as I was not participating in arousing the other person but they sure wanted to try...learned my lesson to stay out of chatrooms.

How do you think your SO would feel if you cybered? If would be very hurt and angry...its cheating to us.

Have you ever caught a partner having cyber sex? No

Do you have any other thoughts about cyber sex? I think it can be alotta fun when appropriate. But I also think it is very dangerous and hurtful. Its like one of those doors you may want to peak into, but it can damage relationships so why open the door.

~I dont cyber w/ DH because we would rather have real sex too! But if he was away...I know we would try it!