What about MOT?

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Registered: 09-19-2005
What about MOT?
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Thu, 07-20-2006 - 7:56pm
Someone posted about a guy moving while WOT but I'd like to know how much the ladies move when a guy's on top? I don't by any means just lay there, but I'll admit sometimes I do. Not to say I'm not doing other things, but sometimes it does feel good to just take it! You know what I mean?
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: dusabby
Thu, 07-20-2006 - 8:44pm
Nothing wrong with moving or just lying there. It would get boring to do the same thing every time though. You have heard men refer to an unenthusiastic partner as a "cold fish" because she just layed there like one. I'm sure most people, men and women, prefer that their partner equally participate. UNLESS they ask them to lie still for some reason.
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Registered: 01-07-2005
In reply to: dusabby
Thu, 07-20-2006 - 10:37pm
XH was total missionary man and I always would thrust up and meet his thrusts. During mastubation I also thrust up, at times. However with current man, my hips don't move much and I don't know why (could it be that he's 14" taller than me?). Vaginally, current man does more for me/to me than XH ever did (he's the first man I've had vaginal Os with). Of course he calls me greedy, so maybe it has more to do with the fact that I'm loving every minute of it, while making him do all the work! Who knows - but he definately knows I'm no 'dead fish'! PS: Now touch my breast or do oral and the hips don't stop!
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Registered: 07-20-2006
In reply to: dusabby
Fri, 07-21-2006 - 7:27am
I definitely move most of the time to meet his thrusts too, however, certain missionary positions prevent me from moving at all like when my legs are on his shoulders. Even though I have told him to stop moving when I'm on time, he has never told me to stop moving when he's on top. He either enjoys it, is not bothered by it or too afraid to tell me to stop.
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Registered: 12-20-2004
In reply to: dusabby
Sat, 07-22-2006 - 4:45am
It depends where you are in the pleasure cycle.. Many times a couple gets the "grove" on and both are moving well in unison and it feels great to both.