What About Multiple Orgasms?

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What About Multiple Orgasms?
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Mon, 04-12-2004 - 3:29pm
Maybe I haven't been paying attention, but I've seen little discussion of multiple orgasms here. You know, the usual questions:



Who has them?

How do you have them?

Why would anyone in their right mind want them when they're

perfectly happy without?

All the usual debate, rancor, offended feelings, you know, all those things that make LTAS so exciting.

taoist

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Registered: 03-08-2004
Mon, 04-12-2004 - 4:08pm

Multiple orgasms


Who has them? I do!!!
How do you have them? Any way I can.
Why would anyone in their right mind want them when they're

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Mon, 04-12-2004 - 5:09pm
"Why would anyone in their right mind want them when they're perfectly happy without?" Okay, Taoist, I don't ever recall anyone EVER making that statement about multiple orgasms. But I WAS perfectly happy without them and would be again if my ability suddenly disappeared overnight. Most women discover it quite by accident anyway.

Multiples are like fudge truffles to me....not necessary to enjoy life but oh boy, do they enhance things when you have them. I wouldn't want a steady diet of them, either, too much time, energy and effort to achieve, but certainly worth it when you have a few hours of privacy. I don't know that every woman is capable of having them but one key (IMO)to finding out is a loving, interested and WILLING partner to go on the journey with them.

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Mon, 04-12-2004 - 5:10pm
Who has them? I do

How do you have them? There's no real ryhme or reason to them, they are spontaneous.

Why would anyone in their right mind want them when they're

perfectly happy without? I don't prefer them. They are weaker, and a few weak orgasms don't compare to one gusher LOL.

Leticia

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Mon, 04-12-2004 - 6:25pm
Since there's no rhyme or reason, are you annoyed when you have a few weak ones instead of one gusher?

taoist
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Mon, 04-12-2004 - 6:40pm
Nope. I just prefer to have a strong one, doesn't mean I don't enjoy the weaker ones. What I do notice though, is that I don't stay as satisfied bewtween encounters if the orgasm wasn't as strong.

Leticia

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Tue, 04-13-2004 - 5:40am
From a male perspective, my wife of now 29 years started having multiple orgasms only within the past couple of years, she is EXTREMELY pleased to have them. Theses are not just a few small ones, but sometimes they are all large, typically 3. She does not have multiple every tome, but quite often and she loves it. Needless to say, since she loves it, I'm also quite happy.
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Tue, 04-13-2004 - 8:09am
As one who has multiples 99% of the time, I can unequivically tell you that they are an essential part of the sexual process! If you don't have them, you're cheating your partner, and yourself. I mean, let's face it....if I have them, then I set the standards, and I say that anyone who doesn't have them must have something wrong with them, right?

Ok, wait a minute. Let me take a deep breath, slap myself silly, and get real. SO SORRY, I just wanted to see for a moment what it feels like to be RIGHT, and tell everyone else that they're WRONG!!! Ok, I'm all better now! Phew, it's a heavy responsibility to be God!

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Tue, 04-13-2004 - 12:13pm
Who has them? I do every time.

How do you have them? clit, g-spot, vaginal (on rare occasion by having my nipples sucked!)

Why would anyone in their right mind want them when they're

perfectly happy without? I can't say that I'm in my right mind. I have always had multiples (10-20 at a time) so I don't really know what having only one would be like. Just speaking for myself, once I get started I REALLY don't want to stop until I am exhausted. That being said, everyone is different and has their own definition of happiness!
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Tue, 04-13-2004 - 2:36pm
So, Jo, you always say that orgasms are NOT the purpose of sex, but you have multiples 99% of the time. Ah Ha! That's your secret!

taoist
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Tue, 04-13-2004 - 3:18pm
LOL! Too funny.

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