What about Porn??

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Registered: 02-20-2007
What about Porn??
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Mon, 04-16-2007 - 8:16pm
How do you and your SO feel about porn?
Do you watch porn alot?
When/if you do is it hardcore or do you prefer softer porn?
How often do you watch it?
If your SO doesn't like it and you do; do you watch alone?
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Registered: 03-31-2007
Mon, 04-16-2007 - 9:22pm
How do you and your SO feel about porn? We like to watch porn sometimes for a little extra spice.



Do you watch porn alot? I would say it's very inconsistent. Sometimes we watch porn 3 times a month and sometimes we go 3 months without watching any.



When/if you do is it hardcore or do you prefer softer porn? We recently started getting Cinemax on our cable, and I have to almost laugh at the porn on there. I guess it is considered soft porn, but I want my porn to be at least hard enough (pun intended) to show a man's full naked body (LOL). It's odd because they try to make it seem like it's geared to the female -- showing her receiving pleasure and such, but then they don't show anything more than his butt. On the flip side of that, I don't like porn that is too hardcore either. I like porn that has people who look real, and I like to watch them having sex with each other, very much like I would do IRL.



How often do you watch it? All depends on our mood. Over the past year, my libido has been rising, and we have enjoyed watching more often. I would say we have watched about 5 times since January.



If your SO doesn't like it and you do; do you watch alone? Both DH and I watch alone from time-to-time. Usually just whatever the cable has on it (HBO and Cinemax), but we also own about 3 DVDs. Rarely watch on the internet.



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Registered: 03-11-2005
Tue, 04-17-2007 - 6:36am

How do you and your SO feel about porn?
We find it very erotic.

Do you watch porn alot?
Every time we have sex we watch it and fantasize.

When/if you do is it hardcore or do you prefer softer porn?
We like watching hardcore group sex DVD'S. DW likes to watch men masturbating.

How often do you watch it?
Every time we have sex(3-4 times a week).

If your SO doesn't like it and you do; do you watch alone?
She likes it as much as I do. We almost never watch alone.

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Registered: 04-17-2003
Tue, 04-17-2007 - 9:18am

We both like it.
Yes, I do almost daily.
I prefer hardcore, no dialog, no attempts at acting.
We watch together and sometimes I watch alone, it's fun.

 

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Tue, 04-17-2007 - 10:20am

How do you and your SO feel about porn?

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Tue, 04-17-2007 - 11:43am

How do you and your SO feel about porn? wow, my answers now are much different than they would have been a year ago. We both think its ok. its not necessary though.

Do you watch porn alot? no, maybe 5 times so far this year.

When/if you do is it hardcore or do you prefer softer porn? Ummm havent really found a preference. what we've watched has been pretty tacky. the dialogue is too cheesy and distracting, and the music makes me want to be deaf.

How often do you watch it? maybe once a month

If your SO doesn't like it and you do; do you watch alone? i watched once alone, not my thing.

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Registered: 01-27-2007
Tue, 04-17-2007 - 7:38pm
I've never watched it by myself and don't think I ever would. On occasion it can be fun to watch with my SO, but don't do it on a regular basis. Of course I mainly laugh while watching it, but sometimes get a good idea or two!
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Registered: 08-16-2006
Wed, 04-18-2007 - 6:27am
I don't care for porn and will not knowingly have it in my home. It makes me physically ill to watch it. DH has been known to sneek out of bed at night ( he thinks I'm asleep ) to watch what's availible on the late night HBO and MAX on demand.
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Registered: 04-19-2007
Thu, 04-19-2007 - 1:13pm
I'm new here and looking for a recommendation. Recently, while my SO and i were having sex, we talked about about doing it while watching a porn movie. Later on she whispered in my ear that she really wanted to follow through with that fantasy. I eager to oblige !! Any recommendations of what we might start with? I don't want anything sooo hardcore it turns her off, but we did have in mind something more than soft core. I actually tried a pay per view from comcast, "I dream of Jenna", and it seemed like they toned it down for cable. Maybe something with a plot, no matter how flimsy. Also, any websites where we can download so as to avoid getting caught in the backroom of the local video store?
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Registered: 03-31-2007
Thu, 04-19-2007 - 3:29pm

Hi Rusty and welcome to the board. We can't post direct link to porn sites here, but you can rent movies that are shipped (discreetly) to your home from several on-line vendors. One of the big names in female friendly porn is Candida Royalle, and I have enjoyed watching some with Nina Hartley. I have never ordered porn on-line, but here are a couple of on-line places you can check out that others have recommended:

adultdvdempire(dot)com
adamandeve(dot)com
excaliburfilms(dot)com
adutldvdtalk(dot)com
adultvideouniverse(dot)com



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Fri, 04-20-2007 - 6:17am

Here are some porn titles we both enjoy and they really turn us on. We particulaly like to fantasize while watching group sex DVD'S. We either have intercourse in the spoon or doggy position while watching or we masturbate together especially with toys. My wife likes to watch men masturbate. We almost never watch alone.
One of our favorite from Adam and Eve is Forbidden Lust. It is about 2 couples who go to a sex retreat to improve their sex lives. Alexandra Silk is the instructor and she joins in. It includes touching, intercourse, oral, toys, role reversal using a strapon, threesomes, foursomes and DP. It is well done and the people are good looking and enjoy their sex. Others from Adam and Eve are: Red Hot Sex Sampler, Group Sex Series, Sex Across America Series, Swinging in the USA, Double Dippin', Secret Suburban Sex Parties and Nina Hartley's Guide to Alternative Sex. From Vivid Everybody's Doin' It, When Vivid Girls Do Orgies, Vivid Girls.
From Wicked: Cum Guns, Private Love Story, Double Penetrations, Orgies and Cumshot Deluxe. From Wicked: Wicked Sex Party Series, Cluster and Jenna in the Middle. From Wildlife:Screw My Wife Series. All are hot and great for fantasizing.
Wemail order them. Adultdvdempire has lots of reviews.