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| Mon, 05-19-2008 - 9:51am |
Hi All,
I do have question.what age range women are expecting more sex or more active in sex

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-Gerry-
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Gerry, it can take a long time for a woman to recover from things like childbirth and hysterectomies. Hopefully she'll find that she's feeling more like her old self, but if it's been a year, and she still isn't feeling the way she would like to feel, encourage her to talk with her doctor.
There are also creams and such on the market that are designed to heighten a womans sensitivity. You might want to try one of those.
Steamer,
Not knowing anything about your situation,
I will just be patient and wait for the time when her libido kicks back in.
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I went through my health issues where my libido tanked for a while but it proved to be the onset of diabetes. I got under control then she started to have perpetual periods that would go on for months. That lead up to the diagnosis of uterine cancer and the hysterectomy. We are going on 5 months since the surgery and she and I are having sex again but no where near the level that we were. She cannot go on hormone treatment due to the possibility of the recurrence of the cancer. She is on a checkup schedule of every 3 months. She is going through menopause and right now sex happens and if I catch her when she is susceptible its good. Its got a long way to go to get back to what it was.
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I think the answer will be different for every woman. I personally did not lose my virginity until I was 25 and that was to the man I married the first time. I was 26 and he was 29 when we married. I was hoping that we'd have sex a lot, because my assumptions at the time were that since we were both young we'd have sex a lot. Well, three years into our marriage he started drinking and doing drugs and later became abusive. So there were dry spells of years when I didn't have sex (except solo, of course). So when I divorced at age 35 I actually had a lot less experience than someone else who'd had a happy marriage for 10 years. Plus the fact that I was kinky and high libido while he was vanilla and low libido didn't help matters.
I didn't experience really wonderful sex until I met my Master
Gerry,
Oh MY! Yo both have been through a lot, I would figure there is great hope for you both to be where you want to be, just give it time! Her body has been through a lot and also, psychologically things are different.
Hang in there, and just love each other every step along the way, it already sounds like you are doing that!
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