What am I doing wrong? (oral)
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| Sun, 08-05-2007 - 5:50pm |
I've been dating this guy for a couple months who is very experienced (and incredible) in bed . I'm not so experienced but we have fantastic sex and he definitely enjoys it like I do.
The only problem is that when I get on top of him when I'm about to give him oral during foreplay I feel like I don't know what to do. He's only the second guy I've been with so I don't have much to compare to. The first time we had foreplay I got on top and confidently kissed down his body and then gave him oral but he seemed uncomfortable and he wasn't getting hard. He gets hard easily in every other circumstance!
My first reaction would be that I'm doing something wrong but every other guy i've given oral to has seemed to enjoy it. He said that it tickles when I go down on him !
Now when its my turn to please him, I feel lost and I end up just kissing him.
Any advice?

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Easy... sit him down in a chair with firm instructions NOT to touch you, then proceed to do a striptease for him, taking off your clothes and touching yourself. If he doesn't get hard from watching that, then he isn't human. ;o)
sit him down in a chair with firm instructions NOT to touch you, then proceed to do a striptease for him, taking off your clothes and touching yourself.
Not meaning to hijack this thred but last week, the night before I left on a 4 day business trip, I decided to give my dh something to think about while I was gone. I got all dressed up in a black corsette and thong, fishnet stockings, high heel boots, and a short black trench coat.
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If he's laying in bed and not expecting to have sexual activity when you begin to give him oral, the ticklishness is likely because of that. Try to hold the base of his penis firmly between a couple of fingers and be sure to apply pressure with your tongue when you begin to go down on him. The gentle kisses are what tickles, and you can move to those once he is hard.
If you want to take him by surprise with a blow job, then try unzipping him while he's watching TV, or some other time that he isn't expecting it yet hasn't settled in to comfy time either.
Contrary to popular belief, not all men go crazy over oral. He might be one of them.
Also, he doesn't have to be hard for you to give him oral, that might just GET him hard.
Maybe light kisses DO tickle him......try licking, or just taking him in your mouth and using your tongue.....and at the same time, use your hand.
Last but definitely NOT least, talk to him and ask him what HE likes....all guys are different. Some like gentle, some like rougher.....some like fast, some like slow....and some don't care for it. If you can DO it, you can ask about it.....ask him what he likes and/or doesn't like.
ooh that sounds fun! I feel a bit clueless what to do to him, though, for foreplay. I mean, dressing up is fun but not everynight.. All I can ever think of is going straight for his package but thats not very imaginative.
I always go down on him after he's given me oral and he's never hard right after so I was wondering what I should do after he's finished on me..
How about giving him a sexy massage, teasing him and not going right for his package but coming very close to it,
1.) kiss down his body. lick his nipples.(that turns guys on)
2.) lick the head. then suck the head.(As your doing this he will start to get hard.
*dirty talk works also
3.)while semi erect take him all in (that is if he's not a gazillion in. long)
4.)lick down the shaft ( the penis should become hard)
5.) start with the head and go down halfway and suck. ( he'll be putty in your hands)
then I caress his inner tights, he saids he loves it, then his annus,,,,all over, but softly. try that and ask him if he likes it...then it makes my bf hard and then I go down for a while... but he loves my hand touching..
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