What am I doing wrong? (oral)

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Registered: 10-01-2006
What am I doing wrong? (oral)
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Sun, 08-05-2007 - 5:50pm

I've been dating this guy for a couple months who is very experienced (and incredible) in bed . I'm not so experienced but we have fantastic sex and he definitely enjoys it like I do.

The only problem is that when I get on top of him when I'm about to give him oral during foreplay I feel like I don't know what to do. He's only the second guy I've been with so I don't have much to compare to. The first time we had foreplay I got on top and confidently kissed down his body and then gave him oral but he seemed uncomfortable and he wasn't getting hard. He gets hard easily in every other circumstance!

My first reaction would be that I'm doing something wrong but every other guy i've given oral to has seemed to enjoy it. He said that it tickles when I go down on him !

Now when its my turn to please him, I feel lost and I end up just kissing him.

Any advice?

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Registered: 07-26-2007
Fri, 08-10-2007 - 1:33pm
i suggest you while sucking his head stroke his shaft, and caress his balls. men do like that touch. kiss his inner thighs, and stick one finger up his anus. that will drive him wild. the dirty reall helps. like:
u like this, it's so big, mmmmmm,
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Registered: 03-31-2007
Fri, 08-10-2007 - 3:15pm

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Registered: 10-01-2006
Mon, 08-13-2007 - 4:33pm

I tried some of this last night and it definitely worked! Thank you.

How do you give oral when its flaccid? I find it really difficult lol

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Registered: 03-08-2004
Mon, 08-13-2007 - 4:58pm

Do the same things you would do with it hard, lick, suck, fondle, stroke, play with and lick/suck his balls, bring it to life.

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Registered: 08-15-2007
Thu, 08-16-2007 - 5:13pm
Sounds like he may be a lil shy, keep doing it and tell him how much you like to do it

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Thu, 08-16-2007 - 5:36pm
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Registered: 08-15-2007
Thu, 08-16-2007 - 6:53pm
HEY THX FOR HAVING ME....I NOTICED YOUR FULL OF INFO THAT FUN TO READ....HAVE A GREAT DAY

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Registered: 08-16-2007
Fri, 08-17-2007 - 12:03am
Ask him what he likes, there are plenty of sex advice sites that tell how and where a manlikes to be sucked. Print some out and read them to him as part of foreplay
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Registered: 08-06-2007
Fri, 08-17-2007 - 10:31am
everytime i do oral we share a passionate kiss then i kiss him all the way down but while i kiss him i feel him in all places and begin masterbating him before i go down there so while iam kissing him i massage him at the same time i wait for the last minute to put it in my moth and when i do i do it very so and passionetly. one idea for you is to watch oral porno tapes that should help, and if your not to shy ask your partner what it is that your doing wrong?

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