What is considered kinky?
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What is considered kinky?
| Tue, 07-10-2007 - 10:55pm |
I have a question. When people say "kinky sex" what kind of sex is that referring to? Does it mean sex toys, or bondage?
Also, is oral considered kinky?

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That is different for everyone. What I do, others might consider kinky, and some people might think it's very conservative.
What you consider kinky, other people would consider normal. Oral is a big part of most people's sex lives.....but there are some who think it's disgusting.
The bottom line is whatever two consenting adults do in the privacy of their own home is considered "normal" for them......but others might consider it strange or kinky.
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I agree with the other posters -- kinky is based on individual preference and opinion. I don't consider oral sex to be kinky at all, but I'm sure those that think it's disgusting might.
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I'm afraid I can't share your dislike of the term *vanilla*, though. Like a lot of terms, it's contextual, and as long as everyone concerned is clear on the context then it works just fine. DW and I understand perfectly well, for example, what we mean when we talk about having vanilla sex as opposed to kinky sex.
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Actually, Steve, I think it is very likely that those of us that visit the boards on a regular basis are the ones that strive to increase the boundaries of our relationships as well.
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ITA with 'that those of us that visit the boards on a regular basis are the ones that strive to increase the boundaries of our relationships' Misty. That is also part of the reason that I think the general idea of 'what is kinky?' wouldn't even be close on these boards as compared to the normal 'run of the mill' population. Just about everything we talk about on the more sexual boards would be considered kinky by a lot of people lol.
Personally I don't really like the word 'kinky' that much. Because there is definitely no hard and fast definition for it. Its all perception. To my mother and at least som of my friends I would be considered 'kinky' but to some of the people I have met here I am probably just 'vanilla' LOL!!
I prefer to Live and let Live as long as no one is getting hurt (oh, unless they want to! :)
I am glad you added this, "(oh, unless they want to! :)" ...
I wouldn't want you to get in trouble with the locals (LOL)!
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