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what to do to him down there?
| Tue, 08-10-2004 - 10:35am |
I have recently started seeing this great guy. He is much more sexually experienced than I am (considering I am not). He has taken it upon him self to masterbate me a couple times now never pressuring me, but I cannot seem to orgasm which makes him keep working away at it. The thing is that I'd like to do somethign nice for him liek oral sex. Thing is I never have before and as much as I have read up on it I have a silly basic question, does he have to be erect first? I realized the other night as I was starting to take off his pants that I did't knwo what to do . So could someone please let me know for future refernce. Thank you.

No, he doesn't have to be erect to start with...in fact it's a good way to get him there. If you want to know how to please him orally ask him. I'm sure that he would more than happy to tell you how to please him.
Good luck (He should feel very fortunate to have someone so interested in pleasing him.)
Peace.
Scott.
Have fun and don't take it too seriously or worry about what you're doing too much. If you're not sure, ask your b/f what you should do. Most guys love being with a woman that is open to suggestions and willing during sex.
No he does not have to be erect for you to give him oral.
Leticia
I agree with what the others have said and I definitely congratulate you on having such a "please each other" kind of relationship! :)
This website is EXCELLENT for learning oral techniques along with Tish's other page as well:
Going Down Further
http://pages.ivillage.com/midniterambler2002/goingdownfurther/
Going Down
http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-csgoingdown
Keep asking him what he likes, how he likes it...commonly reported around here that it adds that much more fun too, ensures he gets what he wants. Just my two cents. My wife actually uses flavoured oils and syrups many times, and YES I love to use the kiwi flavors on her too! Works both ways, right? LOL!! ;P
C h a r a c t e r
above all else
Mr. Para
C H A R A C T E R
Leticia
You might want to figure out whether you want him to cum in your mouth or if you'll just let him squirt into you hand or on your chest or something now. The warm gooey squirt in your mouth can take some getting used to if your not sure what to expect.