what do YOU call it?

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Registered: 07-25-2006
what do YOU call it?
Mon, 07-31-2006 - 12:53am

I'm recently out of a long-term relationship (sex was good but only so-so adventurous) and am now involved with a VERY sexual man. He talks all the time during foreplay and sex and I've come to realize that I like to talk a lot too. However. I have no idea what words to use descriptively.

I get the whole 'vagina' 'penis' thing, but that's just not sexy during foreplay and sex. It sounds too clinical to me. I really dislike the word c*** and can't see it ever being a comfortable word for me to use. Need some pointers here.

The most recent was my saying that what he was doing (something fantastic with his tongue) sent IMMEDIATE sensations 'down'. He asked 'down where'? I clammed up right then and there. Not sexy.

So, what do YOU call it? Guys and Gals here please.