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| Fri, 04-11-2008 - 5:47pm |
I'm a mid-20s single gal, and I am not seeing anyone currently. I've been with a couple of guys, but none of them have given me pleasure. My question is, what do you do when you're horny and no one to "assist" you with that? At this point, I don't want to go looking for a partner, if he will be like the rest, since it's getting more and more frustrating with each new guy. I hate being in this position, because all I do is day dream and I'm wet most of the times. I work out as well, but the sweat doesn't seem to help either. lol

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When you can't be with the one you love, love yourself.
As the others have said, find ways to take care of yourself. I'm in a wonderful relationship, but I still enjoy masturbation.
It wasn't until recently (like last week) that I was able to use just my fingers. I have several sex toys and love my hand held shower massage too. Here are a couple of articles that might help you get started:
Know Thyself: The Female Form 101
http://love.ivillage.com/lnssex/sexsolo/0,,traceycox_b6vtmjv3,00.html
Masturbation 101: 6 Tips for Solo Pleasure
http://love.ivillage.com/lnssex/sexsolo/0,,drpatti_mskn,00.html
How to Choose a Vibrator: A Checklist
http://love.ivillage.com/lnssex/sextaboos/0,,qnpx,00.html
Vibrator Shopping 101
http://love.ivillage.com/lnssex/sextaboos/0,,traceycox_8jmnrtv1,00.html
You're welcome to discuss any of these topics here, and the members are great at helping out. There are also a couple of other boards you might want to visit for some more ideas:
Solo Sex
http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-rlsolo
Let's Talk Toys
http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-rlsextoys
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Hi Michele -- haven't seen you in a while.
Did you get the notice about your Diva card? (That depends on if you receive e-mail notifications when someone replies to one of your messages.) At any rate, here's a link if you missed it:
http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-rlletstalkab/?msg=21779.231
It's good to see you back!
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