what do you do when...

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Registered: 04-26-2007
what do you do when...
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Fri, 04-11-2008 - 5:47pm
I'm a mid-20s single gal, and I am not seeing anyone currently. I've been with a couple of guys, but none of them have given me pleasure. My question is, what do you do when you're horny and no one to "assist" you with that? At this point, I don't want to go looking for a partner, if he will be like the rest, since it's getting more and more frustrating with each new guy. I hate being in this position, because all I do is day dream and I'm wet most of the times. I work out as well, but the sweat doesn't seem to help either. lol

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Registered: 09-20-2007
Fri, 04-11-2008 - 7:00pm
Get some porn, either in movie or book form or look at it on the Internet. Go into a chat room and cyber away with strangers. Get a BOB or one that you can use in the bathtub. If you don't have a guy to help you, then you help yourself.
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Registered: 03-08-2004
Fri, 04-11-2008 - 7:29pm

When you can't be with the one you love, love yourself.

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Registered: 12-26-2007
Fri, 04-11-2008 - 8:45pm
You can do anything to yourself that a man can do. And probably better. I have a shower head that is hand held with different settings and i discovered that its works VERY VERY well. Listen to what issytish has to say also because she gives wonderful advice.
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Registered: 03-31-2007
Fri, 04-11-2008 - 9:49pm

As the others have said, find ways to take care of yourself. I'm in a wonderful relationship, but I still enjoy masturbation.

It wasn't until recently (like last week) that I was able to use just my fingers. I have several sex toys and love my hand held shower massage too. Here are a couple of articles that might help you get started:

Know Thyself: The Female Form 101
http://love.ivillage.com/lnssex/sexsolo/0,,traceycox_b6vtmjv3,00.html

Masturbation 101: 6 Tips for Solo Pleasure
http://love.ivillage.com/lnssex/sexsolo/0,,drpatti_mskn,00.html

How to Choose a Vibrator: A Checklist
http://love.ivillage.com/lnssex/sextaboos/0,,qnpx,00.html

Vibrator Shopping 101
http://love.ivillage.com/lnssex/sextaboos/0,,traceycox_8jmnrtv1,00.html

You're welcome to discuss any of these topics here, and the members are great at helping out. There are also a couple of other boards you might want to visit for some more ideas:

Solo Sex
http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-rlsolo

Let's Talk Toys
http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-rlsextoys







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Registered: 03-08-2004
Fri, 04-11-2008 - 9:55pm

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Registered: 03-07-2008
Fri, 04-11-2008 - 10:10pm
I 100% agree with the hand held shower head ....make sure it has the dial to adjust to fit your need!!! this can take you places you have never been!!!!

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Registered: 12-26-2007
Fri, 04-11-2008 - 10:24pm
Oh yeah i forgot about that one. I never get it you know so i totally forgot about it. The rest is soooo true though.
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Registered: 08-16-2006
Fri, 04-11-2008 - 11:02pm
Not much help on the subject for a lady. I do love your blinkies and support you a 100%
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Registered: 03-07-2008
Sat, 04-12-2008 - 12:10am
you think my blinkies are sexy !!!

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Sat, 04-12-2008 - 8:04am

Hi Michele -- haven't seen you in a while.

Did you get the notice about your Diva card? (That depends on if you receive e-mail notifications when someone replies to one of your messages.) At any rate, here's a link if you missed it:

http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-rlletstalkab/?msg=21779.231

It's good to see you back!







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