What do you say during a handjob?

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What do you say during a handjob?
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Fri, 01-13-2006 - 2:45pm
Ladies, are there "magic words" that you use to work on your guy, as you "work" on his penis? Expecially as he gets close to ejaculation, do you pour the dirty language on, or is much of the communication non-verbal? And do you usually say anything in particular as he starts to come, or while he's coming? And is he able to talk? Many guys have trouble saying much more than "oh yeah" or moaning. What about your guy?

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Fri, 01-13-2006 - 3:48pm

Well, truthfully, we don't do handjobs to finish too much anymore but when we do, I let my fingers do the talking! LOL! Nothing more needed.

And no, my DH tends to moan and groan mightily at the end, but not much intelligible language to be heard.

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Fri, 01-13-2006 - 4:32pm
I find that when I am doing a handjob on a guy that he responds well to being told he is clever and things like that. I don't usually expect a lot of conversation from my partner, although some of them give instructions about how they want to be touched and handled. Elaine
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Fri, 01-13-2006 - 4:58pm
Very true...conversation is definitely at a minimum during a HJ. Interesting that he responds to "clever"...I take it that you mean this in a complimentary way, or is there a sexual overtone, too? It seems unusual to be stroking his ego as well as his penis...but if it works, who's to say?
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Fri, 01-13-2006 - 5:17pm
I agree, hand jobs and conversation don't seem to go hand in hand, if you pardon the expression. Although I personally enjoy a few chosen phrases from my DW, especially if a grunt suffices as an "answer". Anything complicated, forget about it...but something like "Do you like the way I stroke your c**k?" or "Do you want me to stroke your c**k harder?" or "Do you want to shoot?" all can be answered with a nod or a "yeah". Actually, to analyze it here makes it all sound rather stupid, but during a HJ some of these "stupid" phrases actually can work wonders. It's all in the context, I guess.
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Fri, 01-13-2006 - 7:51pm
speaking of hand jobs, i don't seem to do them right..LOL...i either hurt my boyfriends dick or i am not doing it enough to make him orgasm. it's just such an akward thing...haha..any techniques that have worked for your guy?(btw....we just started dating..so we haven't "practiced" much..but some advice would help me get started!)
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Fri, 01-13-2006 - 11:55pm
The one to ask is HIM. He's the only one that knows what HE likes.....and all men like it different.
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Sat, 01-14-2006 - 2:25am

I'm not terribly verbal when my partner is giving me a handjob. I suppose that there's a bit of groaning, a few "Yeah!"s,
"That feels good/great/awesome!",
a couple of "Keep it wet/slippery, baby",
"Oh yeah - right there"
and the ol' standby "Harder/Faster... Oh My Godddd!!!! I'm cumming!".

She usually uses a few
"It's so hard",
"It feels nice, so wet and slippery",
"Do you like what I'm doing, baby?",
"I love stroking your C***",
"Are you going to cum for me?"
"Yeah, come on, cum on my t*ts/pvssy/whatever"
and finally "Oh yeah! That's right baby, you're cumming so hard!".

Those would be pretty standard and in general use with us. There are others and it does vary quite a bit. They're not the only things that we say. Of course, there isn't too much conversation during a BJ - but that's another story.

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Sat, 01-14-2006 - 4:07am
Ummm, I talk dirty in his ear, or tell him a dirty little story about what I could be doing to him if I wanted to hehe.

 


 


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Mon, 01-16-2006 - 1:18pm
My best advice is to go slow and don't grab too hard...and use a good lubricant...and give his dick a break every so often...and play with his balls...and press near his anus...altogether, this should get him off...let me know how you make out
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Mon, 01-16-2006 - 2:28pm
thanks for the advice, guyfromjersey...i will try it on my guy from jersey tonight and tell ya how it goes ; )

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