What do you think...?

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Registered: 08-07-2003
What do you think...?
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Fri, 06-01-2007 - 5:19pm

What do you think about this situation ; a girl on the west coast who has been talking to a guy through myspace on the east coast, and now the girl is flying down just to meet the guy and have sex with him in some motel for the weekend? Especially when the guy isn't really interested in the girl, but the girl offered to fly down just to have sex?

Crazy but true; I hate guys!

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Registered: 02-15-2007
Fri, 06-01-2007 - 5:42pm
I think that this girl must be pretty hard up for some action. That sounds pretty desperate if you ask me. All she has to do is place a no strings attached ad on any personals page and her inbox would be full just because she has a vagina.
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Registered: 03-08-2004
Fri, 06-01-2007 - 6:28pm

So why do you hate guys because of something this girl is doing?

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Registered: 02-20-2007
Fri, 06-01-2007 - 6:35pm
If the girl knows he has no intrest in her and knows there are no strings attached, and is willing to do it, why not? She must feel the same way!
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Registered: 06-12-2006
Fri, 06-01-2007 - 7:05pm

I don't think the guy deserves you saying "you hate guys".

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Registered: 08-07-2003
Fri, 06-01-2007 - 8:01pm
Well I should clarify; I don't hate all guys, but this scenario hits a personal note, so it's hard for me to understand and deal with right now. It's a long story, but the guy is my ex b/f who I obviously still had feelings for. It hits hard because we were just together a few days ago. I was just venting, and haven't really spoken to anybody about how I'm feeling; just trying to deal with it and move forward.
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Registered: 08-16-2006
Fri, 06-01-2007 - 8:03pm
Hey hey hey why all the hate, jeez some men are ok
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Registered: 02-20-2007
Fri, 06-01-2007 - 8:08pm
There are a select few...LOL
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Registered: 08-16-2006
Fri, 06-01-2007 - 8:22pm
Well I know I'm a ok guy, hope I fit in a select few, if not how do I apply
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Registered: 02-20-2007
Fri, 06-01-2007 - 8:23pm
I'll let you know when I know! :-)
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Registered: 03-31-2007
Fri, 06-01-2007 - 8:24pm

Welcome to the board Claire.

As much as I'm sure you don't want to believe this, you really don't have all the facts about what arrangements they have made. You're feeling hurt, not happy that he's your ex, or still attached to him someway. It's really sad that he even told you about it.

She might be flying out just for sex, she might be on a business trip, she might be on a vacation, she might.....any number of things. They have met on-line and decided they want to meet IRL. It happens often these days.

Hopefully, you can put him behind you and move forward with your life. Otherwise, you are going to be hurting yourself -- by thinking about the things he is doing with his life. You are no longer a couple, and he is obviously choosing to move forward with his life.



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