What do you think?

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Registered: 12-28-2006
What do you think?
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Sun, 05-20-2007 - 5:12pm
Ladies, do you think a bigger penis=a better lover? Or do you think, it's not about size, but about technique?
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Registered: 03-31-2007
In reply to: lrc123
Tue, 05-22-2007 - 10:20am

I doubt that there is any physical problem. Has she had any regular gyn visits since the two of you began having sex?

The T-position (that we all seem to love) is a good one to keep you from hitting her cervix. Doggy and missionary with feet raised seem to be the ones that I get "bumped" the most often in. With WOT, I can control it, so it's often not a repetitive bumping -- which is what I think causes the bruised feeling. Some women don't like it at all, so I guess it's individual.

As far as being 6'3" and proportionate size, while it makes sense and often it is true -- it's not always the case.



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Registered: 10-16-2006
In reply to: lrc123
Tue, 05-22-2007 - 10:25am

My husband has by far the biggest penis I've ever been with. But that's not what also makes him the best lover I've ever had. The person that he is, his intelligence, his caring for my orgasm, his knowledge of my body...those are the qualities that make him a mind-blowing lover. The big penis is just a nice bonus. I could easily imagine a scenario where a guy with a giant penis has no lovemaking skills at all.

Okay...with all of that said...yes, if I had the choice between two equally-skilled lovers, one with my hubby's penis and one that was average, I'd take the plus-size.




Edited 5/22/2007 10:29 am ET by curvykate
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Registered: 02-09-2007
In reply to: lrc123
Tue, 05-22-2007 - 11:49am

She had a GYN visit just four or five weeks ago.

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Registered: 03-11-2005
In reply to: lrc123
Wed, 05-23-2007 - 5:08am
My penis is 5 inches long(below average) and 5.5 inches in cicumference(above average). Must be OK since DW cums at least once every time we have IC. A shorter penis makes deep throat easier.
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Registered: 04-20-2007
In reply to: lrc123
Wed, 05-23-2007 - 6:49am
I don't think size would really matter to me. Technique on the other hand drives me crazy!! I love a man with great technique!
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Registered: 06-09-2007
In reply to: lrc123
Sat, 06-09-2007 - 3:24pm

It is all about the technique!

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Registered: 02-28-2006
In reply to: lrc123
Sat, 06-09-2007 - 6:37pm
DW and I have the same problem with bottoming out on her cervix when we have i/c in the doggy position. I'm a smidge over 7" in length, and I would not want to be any larger than I am or DW might have reservations about allowing me in through the back door.

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Registered: 03-28-2005
In reply to: lrc123
Mon, 06-11-2007 - 8:05am
I don't think it's about size at all, my last boyfriend was quite big, in length and width and i have to admit i didn't enjoy sex with him as much as i have with other partners who may not have been as big as him, also i only orgasmed once with my ex and that was in an 8 month timeframe, whereas i've been with my new guy 2 months and his technique is amazing, which proves it ain't all about size
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Registered: 05-11-2007
In reply to: lrc123
Mon, 06-11-2007 - 10:49am

Well said sakura2006! Its definitely technique. Personally I have found that SOME OF (but definitely not the smart ones :) the larger men think they don't need to refine their technique so my preference has always gone the other way if I had a preference (does that make me an anti-sizequeen? hehe). I prefer to know the person and LIKE them first before sleeping with them though. Then we work out the 'particulars' (whatever size that may be :) I really wouldn't understand someone deciding to sleep with a guy just for size although if that is what they want, more power to them!

I'll have to get my new guy to let me measure him. But I know he is probably about average. But its the best sex I have ever had, I know that. And that is technique.

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Registered: 06-08-2007
In reply to: lrc123
Fri, 06-15-2007 - 7:45pm
It's definitely about technique I think. Just because a guy has a large penis does not mean he knows how to use it.