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What do you think?
| Sun, 05-20-2007 - 5:12pm |
Ladies, do you think a bigger penis=a better lover? Or do you think, it's not about size, but about technique?
| Sun, 05-20-2007 - 5:12pm |
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I doubt that there is any physical problem. Has she had any regular gyn visits since the two of you began having sex?
The T-position (that we all seem to love) is a good one to keep you from hitting her cervix. Doggy and missionary with feet raised seem to be the ones that I get "bumped" the most often in. With WOT, I can control it, so it's often not a repetitive bumping -- which is what I think causes the bruised feeling. Some women don't like it at all, so I guess it's individual.
As far as being 6'3" and proportionate size, while it makes sense and often it is true -- it's not always the case.
my partner in the siggy exchange
My husband has by far the biggest penis I've ever been with. But that's not what also makes him the best lover I've ever had. The person that he is, his intelligence, his caring for my orgasm, his knowledge of my body...those are the qualities that make him a mind-blowing lover. The big penis is just a nice bonus. I could easily imagine a scenario where a guy with a giant penis has no lovemaking skills at all.
Okay...with all of that said...yes, if I had the choice between two equally-skilled lovers, one with my hubby's penis and one that was average, I'd take the plus-size.
Edited 5/22/2007 10:29 am ET by curvykate
She had a GYN visit just four or five weeks ago.
It is all about the technique!
Well said sakura2006! Its definitely technique. Personally I have found that SOME OF (but definitely not the smart ones :) the larger men think they don't need to refine their technique so my preference has always gone the other way if I had a preference (does that make me an anti-sizequeen? hehe). I prefer to know the person and LIKE them first before sleeping with them though. Then we work out the 'particulars' (whatever size that may be :) I really wouldn't understand someone deciding to sleep with a guy just for size although if that is what they want, more power to them!
I'll have to get my new guy to let me measure him. But I know he is probably about average. But its the best sex I have ever had, I know that. And that is technique.
Edited 6/11/2007 10:55 am ET by tami-kins
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