What do you think?

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What do you think?
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Sun, 05-20-2007 - 5:12pm
Ladies, do you think a bigger penis=a better lover? Or do you think, it's not about size, but about technique?

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Registered: 02-17-2007
In reply to: lrc123
Fri, 06-15-2007 - 9:49pm

I think that it is definitely technique over size, but I also think that the shape and curve of the penis has a lot to do with it. I have only come to this conclusion recently because the last BF I had had a penis the curved upwards (towards me if I were facing him) and slightly to the left. My current BF has the same penis shape. The other male lovers I have had curved towards their stomaches. With my current BF and my ex, I FE'd very frequently and have wonderful toe curling orgasms.

My current BF is the second largest I've been with, and it can become pretty uncomfortable at times, but he is a wonderful lover. The first man I was with had a VERY large penis (curved towards his stomache and to the right) and sex with him just hurt most of the time. I rarely orgasmed during sex with him and I FE'd maybe twice (we were together 5yrs). My ex had the smallest penis I had ever been with, but I FE'd with him probably 3-5x each session.

I guess I'm rambling, but yeah, technique over size.

 

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Registered: 03-31-2007
In reply to: lrc123
Fri, 06-15-2007 - 10:54pm

I think it would be interesting to do a poll about curved penises. I know that DHs penis also curves to the side, and I FE often. We are usually in the T position when this happens, and we have tried being in the opposite T direction. It is not as comfortable, does not work well, and no FE.

I don't recall having previous lovers that had a noticeable curve to the side. But I wasn't aware of a g-spot when I was with them. I think we should do a study here!



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Registered: 02-17-2007
In reply to: lrc123
Fri, 06-15-2007 - 11:55pm
I agree with you! In some positions, it is definitely not as good for me because of where is penis is rubbing against me. It would be interesting to see others takes on this subject.

 

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Registered: 05-11-2007
In reply to: lrc123
Sun, 06-17-2007 - 11:15pm
I think shape has a lot to do with it too but its also technique. The ones that curve up a bit and are more along the normal size seem to hit my g-spot a lot more frequently that straighter or longer ones. It's probably different for each woman though. But those are my favorites lol because I am definitely a g-spot woman :) Lucky for me my current guy has the perfect shape for me! 49 y/o and he's driving me crazy in bed .. YAY! But we do have to make sure whatever we are on is washable because I FE a lot with him. That hasn't happened to him with other women (or his ex-wife and they were married 25 years) so I assume it is because all woman have different sensitivty and location of the G-spot (it in the same GENERAL location but not at the same spot in all women).


Edited 6/17/2007 11:18 pm ET by tami-kins
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Registered: 02-17-2007
In reply to: lrc123
Mon, 06-18-2007 - 3:33am
Yeah, I agree with you. Also, I think a woman has to be pretty comfortable with herself sexually to be able to FE. So, like with your current man, for instance, his previous lovers may not have been as open to experiencing something like that.

 

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