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| Wed, 06-16-2004 - 10:25am |
She was shocked that he didnt "do her" back and that what he said to her kind of made her feel cheap and sort of used. She ended up watching tv for a while and went to sleep. She said that she was really upset because he has never done anything like this in the past and she doesnt know why he was being so inconsiderate of her feelings and needs. She hasnt yet spoken to him about it as he leaves for work very early(before she gets up).
I really didnt know what to say to her, I mean I do think he should have done the same for her (as she said he usually does). I guess if I were in her situation I would be hurt that his needs were satisfied and mine were completely overlooked and not cared about.
What do you think of this? What should I say to her? We have a lunch date today and I know she will bring this up. We talk about everything, we are very close and I dont want to make it worse for her by saying the wrong things.
Thanks in advance, Toots

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After hearing all of this I had no clue as to what to say to her. I mean they have never had problems like this before and they have been happily married for almost three years.
Do you have any idea what I should say to her? Im sure she and I will talk later on tonight as we usually do. She says she doesnt even know how to approach him about it because she never felt this way towards him before. I understand why she is upset and I can imagine what its doing to her but at the same time I have no idea.
Well now hearing the whole story, what are your thoughts? What do I say? What should she say?
I thank god everyday REALLY to have the loving, caring, respectful husband that I have and Im happy to say that I will never have to feel the way she does towards my husband. Dont get me wrong I love my friend and I want the best for her, but I am definitely happy that I dont have these problems.
Toots
Encourage her to discuss this with him ASAP and to be honest about her hurt and anger before she begins to feel resentful and turn off to him completely.
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