What does sex feel like?

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What does sex feel like?
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Tue, 12-25-2007 - 2:50pm

Greetings. Not sure if this belongs here, but I have

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Registered: 03-08-2004
Tue, 12-25-2007 - 9:56pm

That's a question that is very hard to answer.

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Registered: 12-12-2006
Tue, 12-25-2007 - 11:45pm

I agree with the other poster.......that's something you have to experience for yourself.

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Wed, 12-26-2007 - 11:14am

Garland, I'm going to continue on what Tish started. She used steak as an example. She's correct in saying that someone who doesn't like steak would not describe it the same as someone who enjoys steak ... let alone someone who really loves steak. Take into consideration that there are also different textures to steak, people enjoy their steak cooked in different ways. Some people only want tender, juicy steak, others want it nearly crispy. There is also the cut of the steak that can affect the flavor along with the cooking method used to prepare the steak. So many things go into making the "perfect" steak for any given person.

While you might eat a steak that you don't enjoy, you might also enjoy a steak that isn't your favorite. Then there is that steak to die for. There are all of those varying degrees to sex too.

You can make similar comparisons between solo sex and partnered sex. While I don't always understand why people prefer solo sex to partnered sex, there certainly are those that do. It could be the status of their relationship, the willingness of their partner, or any number of other reasons that make them feel that way. Then there are those that are okay with, but not crazy about either .... to those that crave and love both.

To make the experience the best that it can be when you are ready to have sex is a good idea. There's a webiste, www.the-clitoris.com, that discusses the female anatomy and the sexual responses. It's a great place to learn what your future partner may need to be sexually satisfied, but emotional factors will also play into the picture. While it's not necessary to be in love with your partner, there is certainly an added element to the sexual experience when the partners are in love.





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Registered: 10-15-2006
Wed, 12-26-2007 - 11:44am

Misty I loved Tish's steak analogy and am glad you continued on with it...


The comparisons WRT tastes and appetites were perfectly done.


As for me...I enjoy a Prime Rib, cattleman's cut, medium rare, best of all.


There are however occasions that I will order a New York Strip for the thickness, a Delmonico for the flavor and a Filet Mignon for the wonderful texture...mmmm.


Much the same

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Registered: 08-16-2006
Wed, 12-26-2007 - 1:08pm
It feels incredible with the right person who loves, respects and cares for you.
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Registered: 08-16-2006
Wed, 12-26-2007 - 1:41pm

"I hate steak" so my explanation of what it tastes like will be completely different from someone who loves to eat steak."


That is a surprise!

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Wed, 12-26-2007 - 2:07pm

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Registered: 01-22-2006
Wed, 12-26-2007 - 7:24pm
Thanks for the good advice that you have given me! I will continue to wait for the right person to come along. As for type of sex, I was referring to regular sex, or casual.
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Registered: 08-11-2001
Thu, 12-27-2007 - 9:48am

Like the other posters have said it is a bit hard to explain. I can tell you that intercourse is not like materbating at all. Masterbating and sexual intercourse are completly diffrent experiences.

When I masterbate all the stimultion comes from my erection and it is over very quickly.

When I have intercourse my erection is stimulated but most of the enjoyment comes from holding and being held by my wife. The touching and the pressure of our bodies against each other is very powerful. Sexual intercourse is such a powerful experience that masterbation does not even compare.

My compliments to you for waiting until you find the right person. I waited, and I the only person I have had intercourse with my wife of 28 years. In a marrage, practice makes perfect and the more you practice the more fun you have.

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Thu, 12-27-2007 - 10:37pm
It is ok.

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