What Does Sex Mean To You?

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Registered: 03-06-2008
What Does Sex Mean To You?
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Thu, 03-06-2008 - 5:17pm

What does sex mean to you?

This discussion is not meant to be of the erotic sort, but more thought-provoking. All you need to do is answer the question "What does sex mean to you?".

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Here's an example (my personal answer to the question):

To me, sex is a ritual that should be fun, funny, tender, weird, erotic, funky, whatever you want it to be. For a person to expose their entire body to me is like they're saying "this is me, take it or leave it". It's a very spiritual thing and should not be taken for granted or carried out for a reason other than you really, honestly like the person.

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Take time to really think about your answer. Happy posting!
--Xcyner

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Registered: 01-28-2008
Thu, 03-06-2008 - 7:08pm

Sex is the time when I am able to be the closest I am ever going to get to be with my wife. It's during sex that we are doing an activity that is entirely us. No one else. It's the





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Registered: 03-06-2008
Thu, 03-06-2008 - 7:53pm

That's beautiful that you have such a good sexual relationship with your wife. I bet she's very lucky to have you. Thank you for posting!

Sincerely,
Xcyner

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Registered: 01-28-2008
Fri, 03-07-2008 - 8:21am

"That's beautiful that you have such a good sexual relationship with your wife"


Well in reality that's how I feel for her. I know she loves me, she doesn't show it as much as I would like. It can be frustrating, but I try to keep my feelings for her as high as possible.



"I bet she's very lucky to have you"


That is how I hope she does think. I do try to give her those reasons to think that.


Thank you for the kind words, I really appreciated that.


cbh





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Registered: 03-31-2007
Fri, 03-07-2008 - 11:32am

Welcome to the board, xcyner. What a great question!

For me, sex is a event that I can share with my spouse as his lover, friend and wife. A time that we can connect on every level and share a special bond that only exists between us. It brings a completeness to our relationship.