What happened to RESPECT?

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What happened to RESPECT?
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Thu, 11-11-2004 - 11:14am

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Fri, 11-12-2004 - 11:44am

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Fri, 11-12-2004 - 12:03pm
Its not that this generation was raised to act this way. This generation was NOT raised by parents. Sex ed didn’t teach us anything. U do this and you will get that...... and oral sex and anal sex, that was not really covered. And god knows the emotional aspects of it were NEVER touched upon.

Mag. like Cosmo and Redbook make it seem like this is what the "fearless female" does, a woman who gives her man oral sex and engages in anal sex is mature and not limited by her inhibitions. Truth be told feminism has gone off track. I really don't think women burned their bras so that my generation would kneel down and take a shot in the mouth. Girls and young women need to understand that these magazines are out to make a profit so they print attention grabbing headlines and sex tips. Every Cosmo u pick up has sex tips that tend to involve a women performing oral sex. Step by step. Every question asked is answered with suggestions on how to perform oral sex, even when that is not at all relevant to the question!!

If a woman/ girl does not respect herself a guy is not going to either. When I was in high school the only girls that performed oral sex were the desperate girls. It seemed (I know im going to get yelled at for this!!) that the less attractive the girl was the more she did. Im in college now and it seems to be going the same way. Not always some girls really do want to express affection for their bf, and have been so desensitized that they are completely indifferent to these sex acts. That is what they seem to be, just sex ACTS not acts of love or mutual respect.

Did you ever see the movie Mean Girls? There is one seen that shows a girl about 7 watching the MTV show Spring Break and she sees the girls lifting up their shirts. So what does the little girl do? The same damn thing........
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Fri, 11-12-2004 - 1:24pm
LOL yep, you should have read all the posts para.

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Fri, 11-12-2004 - 1:32pm

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Fri, 11-12-2004 - 1:50pm

Hey, lol good job on most of that.


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Fri, 11-12-2004 - 2:45pm
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Those are really extreme quotes posted by one person, who I'm pretty sure was a troll. And if it wasnt a troll then it was a really extreme example. Most of the people I know in my generation (currently 20) are along the lines of what Para described. If they really care about someone they will do things for them to make them happy, and try something that they want to try. But there are limitations, if something makes them uncomfortable they dont do it. Period. And if the guy doesn't like that then hes out. Also, like Para said I think a lot of the girls that post about wanting to please their bfs better, or learn to do this better, or try that for his sake. Its more they love their bf and want to do something nice, than that they're desperately trying to please him in order to keep him around, but I could be wrong. So yeah, not exactly the purpose of this topic. But I really don't know what makes the one that are to the extreme the way they are. I just wanted to point out that I don't think its as common as you're thinking it is, most of the girls on here don't seem desperate. And the one you're quoting could not have been for real.

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Fri, 11-12-2004 - 3:54pm
I hear ya dear, lol, but what you pointed out was point of this. MY particular point is quite quite quite simple:

I don't care WHAT women choose to do or not do when it comes to pleasing their men...

...as much as I care about...

THE MEN being REAL MEN about it. See my point? These are what gets to me, not the women. Its these boys that should know better in my opinion just like you feel that the women should know better as well.

There's a difference between how gents treat women and how non-gents treat 'em, and I'm VERY sick of the non ones obviously. So in short, you have side to fume about, and I have mine, but we're both pretty much upset about the same thing, LOL!

Hope that makes sense.

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Fri, 11-12-2004 - 4:27pm
LOL You're game.
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Fri, 11-12-2004 - 4:30pm

>>>Hope that makes sense.


Yep. Perfect sense.


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Fri, 11-12-2004 - 6:16pm
???

I think I missed it, lol. What does that mean? :)

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