What if he left to go masturbate?

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Registered: 06-25-2008
What if he left to go masturbate?
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Tue, 07-01-2008 - 1:33pm

I originally was going to post this in my last thread, but this is important to me and I want a thread devoted just to my question.

So basically, I was "blue-balled" last night. For you ladies who don't know what that is, it's when a man is aroused after fooling around with a woman for a bit but she doesn't release him in any way and his testicles hurt afterwards. The best I can imagine it is, imagine getting punched in the boobs, having that total combined pain concentrated in a small area between your legs, and the pain won't go away.

I've always had this problem with girls I just started dating for the first time. They're into heavy making out for an hour or two but it's "too soon" for sex and I get frustrated because I don't get any release.

The girl I was with last night just wanted to watch a movie and cuddle after we had fooled around a bit, but I was suffering from the worst testicular pain I've had in a while. It's really difficult to enjoy a woman's company when it feels like someone kicked your testicles and didn't remove their foot.

So that leads to my question. Ladies, if you were fooling around with a man but you chose not to have sex or release him in any way, would you be offended if he took 5 minutes to go into the bathroom and masturbate? If it meant sparing him of discomfort or pain so he could enjoy being around you afterwards?

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Registered: 03-27-2008
Sun, 07-06-2008 - 10:03am
Sorry man.
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Registered: 06-17-2008
Thu, 07-10-2008 - 12:13pm
I seriously doubt that most women, if they are not ready for sex with you, would be comfortable knowing that you were in the next room wanking!

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