What if he's into Internet Porn?

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Registered: 03-31-2007
What if he's into Internet Porn?
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Tue, 09-30-2008 - 5:02pm
Tracey Cox has a new iVillage article! In her article, Addicted to Internet Porn: When he'd rather surf porn sites than have sex with you, is a great read. So often, when guys are watching porn, women are feeling cheated, but that's certainly not his intention. Check the article out and see if it's likely to cause a problem in your relationship.




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Registered: 07-05-2005
Thu, 10-02-2008 - 11:25am

Pro porn does have a lot of faking involved. Swingers amateur porn is about the most reliable.


I once watched a pro porn scene in which the guy had about 9" in length and went to putting at her

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Registered: 02-17-2007
Thu, 10-02-2008 - 5:31pm
I have a hard time watching most porn for this reason - I also get fixated on certain aspects. Mainly, I cannot enjoy it unless the woman is actually enjoying herself. To me, the biggest determining factor is whether or not she gets wet and whether or not her clit is engorged. So, I fixate on those two factors a lot. Of course, most of the time, you can just tell by her face if she is "faking." I get really angry when a woman is just there to fill the scene and her pleasure isn't being thought about. This is why I generally only watch Cytherea porn, or real squirting porn. I mean, if a woman isn't wet, okay, she can still enjoy sex, but use some lube, touch her clit, do something that actually gives her pleasure!

 

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Thu, 10-02-2008 - 8:30pm

Suki, I think those aspects are changing as more women are showing interest in watching porn, and actually producing porn.

I do still see that though, and even in amateur porn.





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Registered: 02-17-2007
Thu, 10-02-2008 - 8:48pm
Yes, I agree - it is changing the industry (thank goodness!). There is just still so much of what I consider crap out there, that I tend to stick with either specific "actresses" or genres that are focused on female pleasure. Or man on man sex. :) But, I'm also picky about that, too. Like, the guys have to actually be enjoying themselves. I guess my main issue is that everyone should be enjoying themselves and not just doing it for the camera.

 

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