What kind of Role Play do you partici...

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What kind of Role Play do you partici...
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Sun, 01-13-2008 - 9:41am

What kind of Role Play do you participate in ....



  • Use toys as if it were another party.
  • Talk dirty as if one or both of us are someone else.
  • Dress up role play.
  • Play as if she is the male, he is the female.
  • Act out fantasies we have shared.
  • No kind of role play.
  • Other, let me explain.


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Registered: 03-08-2004
Sun, 01-13-2008 - 1:32pm

I voted *Act out fantasies we have shared* which includes all the other things you listed except play as if she is the male, he is the female.

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Registered: 09-08-2007
Sun, 01-13-2008 - 6:37pm

I voted "no kind of role play". I guess we're just not into that, although neither of us has brought if up either (so maybe I'm wrong). I wouldn't mind the dressing up, I'm just not so sure about role-playing.


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Sun, 01-13-2008 - 7:49pm
LOL, I have a son who is also addicted to WOW.




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Registered: 03-11-2005
Mon, 01-14-2008 - 6:04am
DW will uses a realistic dildo while she gives me a BJ and we fantasize that we are having a threesome. I will say things like the other guy might say-so good, so tight etc. We also do role reversal using a strap on and she talks dirty about what she is doing to me. Fun!!
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Registered: 02-28-2006
Mon, 01-14-2008 - 6:50am
Great poll, Misty! Here are a couple of articles that are relevant to this conversation, if anyone finds themselves intrigued by the idea:

Frequently Asked Questions About Fantasy



Living Out the Top 3 Female Fantasies






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Registered: 03-31-2007
Mon, 01-14-2008 - 6:57am

Thanks for posting the links, Steve.

One day, I hope to overcome my stage fright ;-)





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Registered: 12-26-2007
Fri, 01-18-2008 - 12:11pm
I would like to try role playing, but i dont know how to bring that up to my fiance. I dont want him to think that he is not good enough for me because he is and more. I dont think it would offend him but i just dont know how to tell him. Or should i
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Registered: 03-31-2007
Fri, 01-18-2008 - 7:40pm

You could start role play by doing little things (or really big if you want) in a way to turn him on. An example would be to dress up and perform a striptease for him. You can give yourself an exotic name, remind him that he's not allowed to touch and introduce him to your friend the bouncer (who could be completely imaginary or could be a sex toy).

I find that starting to introduce things in a playful way helps to test the waters of what he might/might not like. If he was really into the role play aspect of it, then chances are he'll bring that up in conversations after the event. Taking a step like this can also open the door for him to feel comfortable sharing his fantasies.

Here are some articles that might also help you get started:

Get That Fantasy from Your Head to Your Bed
http://traceycox.ivillage.com/love/2007/06/get_that_fantasy_from_your_hea.html

5 Bedroom Games to Rev Up Your Sex Life
http://love.ivillage.com/lnssex/sextechnique/0,,91kl3xx2,00.html?nlcid=ls|06-14-2007|

5 Ways to Get Frisky on a Snowy Night http://love.ivillage.com/lnm/lnmgetcloser/0,,traceycox_c8fknbvw,00.html

Keep us posted on how you're doing with it!





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Registered: 12-26-2007
Fri, 01-18-2008 - 7:49pm
Thank you soooo much. Now i just have to figure out when to try it. Finding a babysitter is going to be the trick.