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| Sun, 01-13-2008 - 9:41am |
What kind of Role Play do you participate in ....
- Use toys as if it were another party.
- Talk dirty as if one or both of us are someone else.
- Dress up role play.
- Play as if she is the male, he is the female.
- Act out fantasies we have shared.
- No kind of role play.
- Other, let me explain.
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I voted *Act out fantasies we have shared* which includes all the other things you listed except play as if she is the male, he is the female.
I voted "no kind of role play". I guess we're just not into that, although neither of us has brought if up either (so maybe I'm wrong). I wouldn't mind the dressing up, I'm just not so sure about role-playing.
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Thanks for posting the links, Steve.
One day, I hope to overcome my stage fright ;-)
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You could start role play by doing little things (or really big if you want) in a way to turn him on. An example would be to dress up and perform a striptease for him. You can give yourself an exotic name, remind him that he's not allowed to touch and introduce him to your friend the bouncer (who could be completely imaginary or could be a sex toy).
I find that starting to introduce things in a playful way helps to test the waters of what he might/might not like. If he was really into the role play aspect of it, then chances are he'll bring that up in conversations after the event. Taking a step like this can also open the door for him to feel comfortable sharing his fantasies.
Here are some articles that might also help you get started:
Get That Fantasy from Your Head to Your Bed
http://traceycox.ivillage.com/love/2007/06/get_that_fantasy_from_your_hea.html
5 Bedroom Games to Rev Up Your Sex Life
http://love.ivillage.com/lnssex/sextechnique/0,,91kl3xx2,00.html?nlcid=ls|06-14-2007|
5 Ways to Get Frisky on a Snowy Night http://love.ivillage.com/lnm/lnmgetcloser/0,,traceycox_c8fknbvw,00.html
Keep us posted on how you're doing with it!
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