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what men like?
| Sat, 08-21-2004 - 11:56am |
hi everyone, just a quickie really i was in bed with my b/f the other night when he pointed out that i dont touch him much when we are having sex or kiss him during foreplay its not that i dont want to caress him during foreplay but i dont know what to do and i dont want to look silly, he wouldnt be rude if he didnt like it but i just want to get it right the first time, so any idea as to what men enjoy?
lots of love sara

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Every man is different, and every man is a new learning experience. The best way to know what YOUR man likes is to ask, and ask for specific instructions, if that's what it takes.
Others have said this here, and they are absolutely right: there is no specific formula for what a man wants. Just like women, each man is different. He is expressing a desire for more contact, more romance, basically more foreplay. Give that to him if you can. It's best not to think in terms of "doing it right or wrong". Those terms don't apply in lovemaking because everyone is different. Rather think in terms of what gives both of you pleasure. As someone else here has said, ask him specifically what he wants. You can do this in a fun way while making love and it can add to your enjoyment. Also, don't be afraid to ask or guide him in touching you the way that you want.
The only way that one can "lose" in lovemaking is if one doesn't play with an open heart. If the heart is open you can only become closer and closer.
Good luck.
Scott.
Listen, along with what the others have said, I just wanted to add something that worked, eventually, in my marriage.
You have to WANT him! Its not about showing him that you want him, NOR is it about getting it right, and believe it or not NOR is it even about doing what HE wants you to do physically it is about just grabbing him and throwing him in whatever position you want him in and just flat out enjoying him the way YOU want.
Its about what he wants you to do emotionally and psychologically; remember, the majority of us men just drool over confidence, maturity and a woman who knows what wants. Nervousness is like having sex with your clothes on , LOL!
Hope that helps in any way. Maybe you can let us know. ;)
C h a r a c t e r
above all else
Mr. Para
C H A R A C T E R
VERY, VERY, VERY, excellant answer!!!
I could not have come close to saying it as perfect as that. :)
That is exactly what we men want.
Sharon
A friend is the person who kn
For so many of us men, its all about attitude, confidence & maturity...and then the 1% is actually the other part, LOL!
I myself was always attracted to the maturity and the confidence more than anything else, so slightly older women who posessed these qualities always had an advantage over me than the younger ones did before I met Mrs. Para. Point being, VERY many of us guys are actually not quite what many women seem to think we are. ;)
C h a r a c t e r
above all else
Mr. Para
C H A R A C T E R
Riding high
What are you self conscious and nervous about?
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