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what men like?
| Sat, 08-21-2004 - 11:56am |
hi everyone, just a quickie really i was in bed with my b/f the other night when he pointed out that i dont touch him much when we are having sex or kiss him during foreplay its not that i dont want to caress him during foreplay but i dont know what to do and i dont want to look silly, he wouldnt be rude if he didnt like it but i just want to get it right the first time, so any idea as to what men enjoy?
lots of love sara

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Kissing and oral play in general. If it's in front of you and it has my skin, kiss it, lick it, within certain parameters, bite it. If it's my mouth, play with my lips and tongue like it were my penis. If it's my penis, play with it like it were my mouth and tongue.
Touching. If that hand isn't supporting you or me, it has to be busy. Touch yourself, touch me, touch something!
Vocalization. No fake porno nonsense, say whatever you mean or feel. This is one of the many reasons I'm attracted to confident women; they're ability to know and communicate. Be it sex or relationships and interactions in general.
69! A lot of people complain it takes away from the focus, and I agree! I love the sensory overload of trying to please whilst getting pleased simultaneously. The better you can be at 69, the better your oral skills when just doing oral. Think of it like jogging with weights on your ankles. Once the weights come off, running gets easier.
Lastly, this falls into the category of what I don't like -- don't be a dead cold fish! I've heard of too many women, and good looking women seem to be more this way, that suck in bed because once the clothes come off, *bam*, they're on their back, stay on their back and don't really indicate that they're even enjoying things.
Have fun. Fumbling around in the dark, laughing, is better -- far better -- than lying there stressed about how you look. This "stress" tends to give off the "...get this over with so I can paint the ceiling already" vibe.
Great post Muttley!!
This is one of those things that, unfortuantely, only comes after years of mistakes. Life is short, #!*% hard.
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Good point!
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