What R your tricks 2 multiple O's?

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Registered: 01-25-2008
What R your tricks 2 multiple O's?
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Thu, 05-01-2008 - 6:27pm

I have read how many women can have many O's within a certain time frame.

 

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Registered: 09-20-2007
Fri, 05-02-2008 - 3:26am
My ex was able to reach my G-spoy quite a few times, but Master hasn't yet. However, I do have this really wonderful vibrator that is a G-spot vibrator. What I love is when I will be on my stomach, tied to the bed and then Master will use that vibrator on me. I found that I have to be laying on several pillows and have my butt up a bit so that it hits the right spot. But, OMG when it does, it's a good thing I'm tied to the bed or I'd fly off of it!
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Registered: 09-20-2007
Fri, 05-02-2008 - 3:29am

Why can't my husband visit this site?

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Fri, 05-02-2008 - 9:00am
"I just hate that I feel like I am totally missing out on a whole new level of intimacy due to lack of interest on his part."

I think this is a very important part of it. He needs to have an interest in you having great sex that is great for you (not just great for him). Usually, if the guy has the interest or happens upon this experience, it will motivate him to help you have multiples on a regular basis.


















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Registered: 03-31-2007
Fri, 05-02-2008 - 9:42am

After having a very intense clitoral O, I need time before having my clitoris stimulated again, but I can go straight into intercourse after just a couple of seconds (usually the amount of time it takes for a position change), so long as the position doesn't stimulate my clitoris. Then, as the intensity builds there, or if he's hitting my g-spot, I can have the Os during intercourse. Within a couple of minutes, my clitoris is ready for more attention again.

A lot of it also depends on the amount of control he has with regard to his own orgasm. DH has learned how to hold back because he gets a lot of enjoyment out of helping me have Os -- and it builds the intensity of his own orgasm. While it hasn't always been this way, he's finding that it's easy for him to get another erection fairly quickly (YAY). Whether he does or doesn't get another erection, he's often happy to keep me going even after intercourse.

The big change in all of this occurred for us when my own libido went crazy. I was all over him every chance I got, which was very exciting for him. Our sex life hasn't been without it's dry spells, and I think this change in my libido did a lot for his ego and how he perceived our sex life. It all sort of fed together and developed more during that time. We're not having sex quite as frequently as we were a year or so ago, but the intensity is still the same (and something we both look forward to).


















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Registered: 03-31-2007
Fri, 05-02-2008 - 9:45am

Good choice, Sister.

All sexual lifestyles are welcome here, and should be able to be expressed in a positive environment.


















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Registered: 03-31-2007
Fri, 05-02-2008 - 9:46am

I've tried raising my butt with the pillows, but while laying on my back. That's actually how we originally found my g-spot.

I'll have to try laying on my stomach as an alternative ~ experimenting is so much fun!


















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Registered: 01-25-2008
Fri, 05-02-2008 - 11:06am

Thanks for your tips on what works for you.

 

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Fri, 05-02-2008 - 12:32pm

I would have been upset too if he hadn't tried to please me. Have you tried talking to him about that outside of the bedroom, at a time when sex isn't on the table? I would have to tell him that you would like your efforts appreciated.

Otherwise, when something like that happens, you can try a playful approach ... "Oh, no, you're not done yet ... now it's my turn!"


















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Registered: 09-20-2007
Fri, 05-02-2008 - 1:25pm
Thank you, Misty Mae. I belong to several of the sex boards and all the regulars there know that I live the BDSM lifestyle, that I am a collared submissive and that I call my DH my Master. No one has had a problem with it before. I am glad that there is an ignore feature at iVillage, because I feel that I should not have to defend my lifestyle choice to people. They don't have to understand it, but they also should not have to personally attack me like that and immediately put me on the defensive. So thank you again.

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