what really is the role of the vagina
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what really is the role of the vagina
| Mon, 09-25-2006 - 2:17pm |
hi ladies....please what really is the role if the vagina during sex.is there any pleasure at all due to penetration or is it just the sense that u have someone inside.is it an enjoyable sensation or is it just pleasur (i understand the clit is the main key).but how does penetration of the vagina really ought to feel like.pleas explain very well cause i dont have one and my gurl isn't much of an adventurer....thank...plsss
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There is no one answer to your question.
Are you talking about "pleasure" or "orgasms"? They're two different things. A woman can enjoy intercourse, get pleasure from it, but not have orgasms from penetration alone. A woman doesn't have to have orgasms to have pleasure.
A part of the vagina's "role" is to give the man pleasure, too! And women get pleasure from GIVING that pleasure. Some women just enjoy the "fullness". Some feel very little. We're all different.
The key is pleasure, if you're giving it and getting it, don't try to analyze every little part of it.
If you want to know more about how a woman's body works, check out www.the-clitoris.com There's a lot more there than just info about the clitoris.
please wat do i do when it comes to penetration...looks like she as zeroed her mind that penetration is pleasurable or she does not know how to go about it.she does not even let me use my finger..
i'm kinda angry and unhappy at thesame time
It sounds like she may have some issues with penetration that aren't really related to you or pleasure at all.
Do you know if she was ever abused or raped? Even orally or manually? You'd be surprised how many women have been but never told anyone about it. In our "blame the victim" society, it's no wonder that that's often the case. I would suggest that you begin asking some questions about her past and then you might have some answers.
Just a quick thought....if you want her to enjoy intercourse, you can begin by changing yourself. Stop pressuring her. That's the worse thing you can do to anyone. You feel as though you're being watched and there are expectations that you **need** to live up to. Even if it did feel good, she would probably miss the whole thing because she's worrying about it, because you are making her worry about it. Just leave her be. Just let it go. Why is it so important to you that she have orgasms through penetration? What difference does it make where they come from? Instead of drilling her, you should be doing the opposite, and reassuring her that you do not care where she gets pleasure from, as long as she does.
It's perfectly "normal" for women not to orgasm from intercourse alone and you're making her feel abnormal (not purposely, I know) and that could backfire big time. If anything, start with today, and let her know that it does not matter, and then resolve yourself to accepting that it may never. Many times when women are with men who put so much emphasis on orgasming without clitoral stimulation, the women will fake it to protect his ego (as it's apparent that it's quite dependent upon it ;-)). Why not instead, just let her feel comfortable to do whatever it is that she feels like doing. She knows her body best, just as you know yours. Just let her relax and enjoy, and you may be surprised.
The first thing you need to do, is take your ego out of the bedroom. Good luck.
hi...thanks every one.it seems somefolks are getting me wrong.... i am not putting preasure on her to have an orgasm (not even close..so it has nothing to do with ego).what i am saying is that she said she does not feel anything but pressure in her vagina.i think she is very scared about that part of her body.she wont even let me use my fingers.she seem to enjoy other things i do to her but penetration is out of it.no she says she as never touched herself.she wont even look at her V in the mirror (not like its that seriouse)..but the thing is..she is the kind of girl that dont tell u wat really pleasures them (mabe she thinks that makes her a wild girl).sometimes i see her making facial expressions when i'm doing things to her(u know!! like she is enjoying it..)but when she notices my eyes she stops (she says she is always shy).i think she as a different mind or expectation about penetration.thats whyi am asking HOW THE VAGInA FEELS ON AN AVERAGE DURING PENETRATION (any pleasure inside at all?).We have a great relationship so its not like she aint free with me.thanks
Every woman is different but most women NEED clitoral stimulation to enjoy intercourse. So, most women only feel vaginal pressure if there is no additional stimulation.
Most sexual sensation comes from the clitoris, not the vagina. The clitoris runs up inside the pelvis about 5-6", so it's not just the little bulb you see on the outside of her body.
Check out www.the-clitoris.com for more information. In the meantime, BELIEVE what she's telling you. You're not doing anything wrong but you need to learn about female sexuality & biology.
SHE knows her own body and what she experiences with intercourse and it is different than what you experience. 2 sexes, 2 sexualities.
With you inside her, as you thrust away, she can masturbate herself with her hand, or even a vibrator. Its not considered cheating if she does this, it is called getting pleasure during intercourse, by any means possible and fun. Trust me, if you get her to use a vibrator on herself as you are inside her, she will be much more willing to repeat the experiance..lol.That can lead to some mind blowing orgasms for her, and a very easy way to co-ordinate that all elusive simultaneous orgasm.
Do you give her oral sex? Many women prefer oral to intercourse. For many women a tongue can do a lot more in the way of pleasing her than a penis could ever do.
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