What is sexier? (I'm getting implants...
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What is sexier? (I'm getting implants...
| Sun, 08-07-2005 - 10:26pm |
What is sexier? (I'm getting implants, from a B to ...)
- Full B
- Small C
- Full C
- Small D
- Full D
- Full DD
- Bigger
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That's a tough decision since you didn't really give your stats. I have implants. I went from an A cup to a small D cup. You have to keep in mind that implants seem smaller than real breasts as far as size goes. For example, a D cup is smaller with implants because the implant is placed behind your muscle. A natural D would not only be bigger but hang lower as well.
I'm obviously not against implants but I also think a woman who is an A cup can be just as sexy as a woman with a D cup. I personally had two kids, nursed them and had assymetry (uneven sizes) by almost a cup size. I also really hated the way my breasts looked after weaning my kids. It was a very personal choice for me and I could care less what anyone else thinks.
Do men think implants are better? Guess that would depend on the man you asked and about which implants. I have seen some women who look ridiculous with huge boobs almost right under their chins. I have also seen women with natural conservative implants who look amazing. My dh always told me it was my choice and he loved me the way I was. He's very happy with my implants and thinks I look very sexy.
If you want to get implants, you should get them for your own reasons. Don't try to get other people to tell you whats right or wrong, sexy or not. It's your decision.
Agreed.
If the goal is "sexy", the answer is "Learn to love and accept yourself as you are, however you are".
There is nothing more sexy in a woman than that.
Agree with you.
I think the truth is that shape, not size, matters most.
That's why implants can be disturbing: they just look weird. Not per se, but in each individual case the shape makes the difference. Even if the breast is about as big as the nipple there, it doesn't matter, those boobies can still be sexy as hell. But my advice is to get them as natural looking as possible.
I never thought about my breasts(I went from a B to a D to a C). I truly never thought that my breasts were that important to how sexy I was.
I guess it comes down to how I viewed the opposite sex. I never nitpicked that this was sexy, or that was sexy--I just thought HE was sexy. Everything packaged together: His mannerisms; his personality; his smile and facial animations that expressed his emotions; his gait; his quirkiness; the way he eats; the way he works; the way he plays; his touch--just about everything that makes him, HIM, is what's sexy about him. Not just....his...let's say...penis. The whole package is what makes him sexy....why would it be any different for men? They see you as a whole person, not just a body part. I'm sure that there are men who would only see the sexiness of a woman by the size of her breasts, but I don't think that they're all that prevalent. Most men see that sexiness is more than just about breast size. Just think about it....would you base a man's sexiness on the size of his penis? Of course not.
Your attitude, personality, and the way you carry yourself is what will determine your sexiness, not the size of your breasts. I had smaller and I had bigger, and it made no difference to how I felt about myself or how DH viewed me either.
Edited 8/8/2005 12:59 pm ET ET by rain_dancer_iam
I agree with the others! If you're doing it just to be sexier......I have a feeling you'll have a rude awakening. Sexiness comes from within, NOT from breast size. Sure, if you make them large enough, you'll get attention.....but who wants attention from a man who's only interested in your big boobs?
Any plastic surgeon worth the title will take the whole woman into consideration, and the reason for doing it, not just the $10,000.00 he'll be making for the job. Example: Michael Jackson's surgeon. His license should be taken away! He will help you make the decision about the size, because he'll know what will look good on you, and what will look ridiculous.
As the others said.....if size is your concern, unless you're totally FLAT, you will get larger as you get older. I went from a small "B" to a "DD" after 3 pregnancies, and I would give anything (except $10,000.00!) to be a "B" again!
Think twice before you go under the knife. You'll have problems with mammograms.....and there are plenty of cases that turn out terrible, infections, bad scars, etc. You don't hear about them, but it happens a LOT.
If you are absolutely set on getting implants, please, please be conservative about it and go for the smaller increase in size rather than bigger! There is nothing LESS sexy than a woman with enormous inflated boobs. Sure, if you want to look like a porn star, by all means get big implants. If you'd rather look more natural then get a smaller size and listen to the advice of your (hopefully good) plastic surgeon.
I agree with the others. Big breasts on their own don't increase how sexy a woman is. And from talking to my male friends over a few beers, large FAKE breasts are more of a turn-off than a turn-on for most of them. They just don't look or feel right. Sure, big breasts attract attention but they attract attention in the same way that a garish and brightly coloured billboard can attract attention - you can't miss it, but you don't necessarily want what it's advertising.
Personality coupled with a good figure and good cared-for appearance (which includes breasts whatever size they actually are) makes a woman sexy. Sexy is 90% attitude, confidence,and presentation, and only 10% breast size.
Remember too that when it comes to choosing the size of your new breasts YOU are biased and are likely to choose something that is too big. So try to be objective and listen to the advice you get.
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