What should I do???
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What should I do???
| Mon, 11-13-2006 - 12:46pm |
Okay guys,
First off let me say that I love my hubby like no other. Everything is great with us but his weight is begining to hinder our sex life. I am 5'7 and 117. He is 6'2 and 250. He is carrying all of his extra weight on his stomach. When we make love he crushes me. It's not fun, I can't breathe, I want it to be over. We flip and do the lady on top sometimes but I HATE it. I have to be tipsy to not feel like a fool. He is definitly the more experienced out of the two of us. I don't know how to do much that is not "standard". I'm trying to get over being "shy" and take control more often but in the meantime.....HELP! What can I do so that I don't hurt his feelings?

Why would you feel like a fool on top? Better a fool on top than being smothered to death! There is nothing to feel foolish about. If you learn how to do it properly, you'll love it. Most women do, and it has nothing to do with a weight problem. It's the best way to have orgasms for many women! How about doggie style? How about side by side? There are many things you can do so that he's not on top.
Maybe suggest that he go on a diet, and/or join a gym!
Everything dakine001 said and:
Move to the end of the bed and let him stand up.
See: http://www.sex-techniques-and-positions.com/index.html for more ideas.
Have fun, I'm sure you can make things work out!