What size would you prefer

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What size would you prefer
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Thu, 04-13-2006 - 6:42pm

I was talking with DH a long time ago about penis size. Guys are very concerned about this evidently...even guys with pretty nice sized things are. I have been with some nice ones and they still wondered if it was big enough...The question I asked DH was...how big do guys think WE want? He said that he always thought most girls would want 8 inches long and about 6 inches or more around...I have to say that for me that is a little too big on a day to day basis. I have had a 10x6 incher and it is amazing...but if I had to choose which one my DH had...I would choose 7x5+...I don't prefer that huge thing...although I can have fun with it. I like one I can get in my mouth real nice too. But I will tell you that if the 10 inch guy couldn't go down well...then I would take 4 incher who could any day of the week...and this should go without saying but I have to be into the guy no matter what size he is and his size doesn't determine how much I like him. We feel love from our hearts not from how big your thing is. SO he asked me this:
All things being equal if I had a choice of penis size, what would I go with? So this is my question to the other girls out there... remember, all things being equal. Kind of like you could order a guy part by part....Let me answer first so that you will see where I am coming from.

Ok...Here goes:

For me, I prefer 7 inches long and 5 1/2 inches around (DH), to me, that is perfectly BIG. and I think of it as big...not average. I like average too...I can have some gooood fun with average (5x4.5)...I've had much bigger and smaller. So, this is just what I prefer (7x5.5). It fits in my p***y really really nice...and it fits in my mouth just right and those are the only places I tend to put it...I want all the guys out there to know that most of us girls wouldn't dump you if you had a 4 inch one. We would very much like it however if you could please us with other parts of your body. We want to know that you love to give us pleaure too...I for one am most satisfied with oral. I cum when a guy goes down on me but he does have to know what he is doing (read up on it if you don't). I don't cum everytime through penetration <--I have cum that way and it is amazing but the best orgasm I ever had was DH going down on me and right when I was cumming he put two fingers inside me and wiggled them around all crazy pressing up against the front part of my wall, this started something for me...now it's everytime. I was in a place at that time that no penis alone could take me. I attacked him after that and gave him a bj that he would remember today if you asked him about it! I was very thankful. So with that said. All things being equal:

What size would you prefer?

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Thu, 04-13-2006 - 6:48pm

Big enough to do the job but small enough not to cause pain. My DH's size, in other words.

I really have no preference though. I never chose a partner based on the size of his penis.




Edited 4/13/2006 6:51 pm ET by katmandoo2001
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Thu, 04-13-2006 - 9:20pm

Good answer, Kat.


Like old Abe Lincoln answered when asked how tall a man should be, "Tall enough for his legs to reach the ground".


As a man who's had several partners (and many gal friends) over the years, I can tell you that the great majority of women simply don't care about size.


If it's big enough to do the job,

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Thu, 04-13-2006 - 9:49pm

It it isn't close to


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Thu, 04-13-2006 - 9:53pm
I prefer the size that gets the job done. For me that's included one 6" and one that's bigger than 7".
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Thu, 04-13-2006 - 10:55pm
My partner finds me to be the right size and I know she has trouble with bigger vibrators etc, so I guess she's telling the "truth." So 6.5-7" would be ample for her.
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Thu, 04-13-2006 - 11:59pm
I prefer 6.5 long and thicker than average. Although I would never pick a man for his penis size, I do sometimes think about the perfect penises I have encountered before even though I am in a loving relationship currently. I do think extra large penises are overrated. Sometimes when I watch porn I cringe when the guy is extra large because it is obvious he is hurting the girl.
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Fri, 04-14-2006 - 9:22am
I'd rather have a retractable one, while it's good for intercourse it's not so hot for oral/anal, so making it a bit more accommodating would be a nice thing. On the receiving end, I don't have a preference in size, but in color (should match the rest of his body) and shape.

 

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Fri, 04-14-2006 - 4:48pm


"6.5 long but thicker than average"

what would thicker than average be for you? is 5 around thicker than average (because I hear 4.5 is about average around)or are you talking more about 6+ around?

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Fri, 04-14-2006 - 4:54pm


"a retractable one"...

I never thought of it that way...retractable...that WOULD be nice. I too think a little thicker feels pretty nice "down there" but any bigger than 6 around just doesn't fit in my mouth very comfortably and I love to give him oral. I would never pick a guy based on his penis either...but I do think I got kinda lucky with DH and his brother is just a treat once or so a year.

ang

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Fri, 04-14-2006 - 7:43pm

Interesting answer, cerryl. Sounds like Mrs. Para, LOL, and we've read that similar response from other boards too.

So much has been discussed about the gent being physically 'filling' enough for the lady in a relationship that it becomes rare to include the other factors too, such as oral.

I admire your honesty when it comes to the 'appearance' of it as well. I always believed that 'both' genders were pretty visual. I personally remember reading comments about color (I'm guessing this deals with the Caucasian men?), but the shape part is not something I remember. Does this mean there are certain 'shapes' or something that turns you ? Just curious.

 

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