What size would you prefer

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What size would you prefer
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Thu, 04-13-2006 - 6:42pm

I was talking with DH a long time ago about penis size. Guys are very concerned about this evidently...even guys with pretty nice sized things are. I have been with some nice ones and they still wondered if it was big enough...The question I asked DH was...how big do guys think WE want? He said that he always thought most girls would want 8 inches long and about 6 inches or more around...I have to say that for me that is a little too big on a day to day basis. I have had a 10x6 incher and it is amazing...but if I had to choose which one my DH had...I would choose 7x5+...I don't prefer that huge thing...although I can have fun with it. I like one I can get in my mouth real nice too. But I will tell you that if the 10 inch guy couldn't go down well...then I would take 4 incher who could any day of the week...and this should go without saying but I have to be into the guy no matter what size he is and his size doesn't determine how much I like him. We feel love from our hearts not from how big your thing is. SO he asked me this:
All things being equal if I had a choice of penis size, what would I go with? So this is my question to the other girls out there... remember, all things being equal. Kind of like you could order a guy part by part....Let me answer first so that you will see where I am coming from.

Ok...Here goes:

For me, I prefer 7 inches long and 5 1/2 inches around (DH), to me, that is perfectly BIG. and I think of it as big...not average. I like average too...I can have some gooood fun with average (5x4.5)...I've had much bigger and smaller. So, this is just what I prefer (7x5.5). It fits in my p***y really really nice...and it fits in my mouth just right and those are the only places I tend to put it...I want all the guys out there to know that most of us girls wouldn't dump you if you had a 4 inch one. We would very much like it however if you could please us with other parts of your body. We want to know that you love to give us pleaure too...I for one am most satisfied with oral. I cum when a guy goes down on me but he does have to know what he is doing (read up on it if you don't). I don't cum everytime through penetration <--I have cum that way and it is amazing but the best orgasm I ever had was DH going down on me and right when I was cumming he put two fingers inside me and wiggled them around all crazy pressing up against the front part of my wall, this started something for me...now it's everytime. I was in a place at that time that no penis alone could take me. I attacked him after that and gave him a bj that he would remember today if you asked him about it! I was very thankful. So with that said. All things being equal:

What size would you prefer?

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Fri, 04-14-2006 - 7:47pm

Interesting thing I just remembered actually.

On one of the male message boards, I remember reading posts from a lady here and there that mentioned this. They stated that sometimes it just depends. Honestly.

Sometimes they're in the mood for "comfortable" and other times they want deeper and other times they want thicker and you name it. They simply didn't have a preference that they could say they'd like every single time.

I just thought that was interesting while comparing with what I read from this message board.

Always seems to be one of the more discussed topics on these boards, lol. :)

 

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Sat, 04-15-2006 - 2:59am
Of the guys I have been with, some have been larger, some smaller, but not once have I ever measured a penis. It doesn't even interest me. I don't like the idea that I might give some guy a complex by asking to know what his size is. I don't care what the size is as long as I find the sex pleasurable. Sex with SO is wonderful because he knows what to do with his penis, and how to hit the right spots.

 


 


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Registered: 07-16-2003
Sat, 04-15-2006 - 1:26pm

I will have to take my tape measure with me when I see my honey tonight.

Does he seem like he was made just for my body because I am so hot for him? -- Or am I so hot for him because it seems like he was made just for my bod? LOL Either way it's a perfect fit.

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Registered: 01-18-2004
Sat, 04-15-2006 - 10:14pm
Hell, who cares about size! Tell us more about you!!
Ops, did I say that out loud? Hmm....6 X 5 or so, I guess.
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Registered: 12-20-2004
Sat, 04-15-2006 - 11:13pm
A perfect fit is nice.. But because penises come in all lengths and girths, and because vaginas come in all widths and depths, a penis might be a perfect fit for one woman and not for another....(if that matters) It does to my DW who has had a couple that didnt fit right..lol
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Registered: 04-17-2003
Mon, 04-17-2006 - 12:38pm

No, it's not just white men. A man of any color can have (dare I say!) an ugly looking penis.

Shape doesn't do much for me one way or the other (unless it looks like a broken animal baloon) but mostly the color and its contrast to his skin color, or any discoloration on it. But these things don't mean a whole lot anyway, they just mean more to me than the size of it would.

 

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Mon, 04-17-2006 - 3:15pm
I never cease to be amazed at how insecure males are about the size of their penis, and how much reassuring they need. Like other women here I have never taken a tapemeasure to bed with me to check out, it is more whether a man is capable of using it well that counts. What I do like is a man with a slender organ, about average sized, and with a slight upward bend in it. Elaine
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Tue, 04-18-2006 - 3:52am

That's nice except you posted this:

"Until fairly recently I said that size didn't matter, but then after a delightful rendezvous with this man who was not only a good size but also knew how to use it. After that smaller lovers were not as satisfying. Elaine"

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Registered: 04-10-2006
Tue, 04-18-2006 - 12:19pm
I am small 4"x 2" & my wife has taken a lover who is 9"x 5". Guess that answers for her
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Registered: 12-20-2004
Tue, 04-18-2006 - 2:09pm

Two questions for the ladies.....
#1 we always hear its not the size, but what you do with it that counts, but we never hear what it is that they mean EXACTLY by "what you do with it"..Ladies please enlighten us.

#2 All things being equal, his caring, talent, etc .( or for argument sake a one night stand)what size THEN would you perfer?....Im just curious ( this question is for those ladies who say size makes a difference).