What size would you prefer

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What size would you prefer
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Thu, 04-13-2006 - 6:42pm

I was talking with DH a long time ago about penis size. Guys are very concerned about this evidently...even guys with pretty nice sized things are. I have been with some nice ones and they still wondered if it was big enough...The question I asked DH was...how big do guys think WE want? He said that he always thought most girls would want 8 inches long and about 6 inches or more around...I have to say that for me that is a little too big on a day to day basis. I have had a 10x6 incher and it is amazing...but if I had to choose which one my DH had...I would choose 7x5+...I don't prefer that huge thing...although I can have fun with it. I like one I can get in my mouth real nice too. But I will tell you that if the 10 inch guy couldn't go down well...then I would take 4 incher who could any day of the week...and this should go without saying but I have to be into the guy no matter what size he is and his size doesn't determine how much I like him. We feel love from our hearts not from how big your thing is. SO he asked me this:
All things being equal if I had a choice of penis size, what would I go with? So this is my question to the other girls out there... remember, all things being equal. Kind of like you could order a guy part by part....Let me answer first so that you will see where I am coming from.

Ok...Here goes:

For me, I prefer 7 inches long and 5 1/2 inches around (DH), to me, that is perfectly BIG. and I think of it as big...not average. I like average too...I can have some gooood fun with average (5x4.5)...I've had much bigger and smaller. So, this is just what I prefer (7x5.5). It fits in my p***y really really nice...and it fits in my mouth just right and those are the only places I tend to put it...I want all the guys out there to know that most of us girls wouldn't dump you if you had a 4 inch one. We would very much like it however if you could please us with other parts of your body. We want to know that you love to give us pleaure too...I for one am most satisfied with oral. I cum when a guy goes down on me but he does have to know what he is doing (read up on it if you don't). I don't cum everytime through penetration <--I have cum that way and it is amazing but the best orgasm I ever had was DH going down on me and right when I was cumming he put two fingers inside me and wiggled them around all crazy pressing up against the front part of my wall, this started something for me...now it's everytime. I was in a place at that time that no penis alone could take me. I attacked him after that and gave him a bj that he would remember today if you asked him about it! I was very thankful. So with that said. All things being equal:

What size would you prefer?

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Wed, 04-19-2006 - 8:03am
iofbeholder, I said all things being equal, "a bigger guy who pumped a few times and was done" isn`t equal...I`m guessing then size really doesnt matter to you either... What some guys dont get is good sex is good sex, no matter the size.
My question was all things being equal would a woman want a bigger one, .ave, or smaller.
Other women have answered this on other forums as they want good sex, any size will do that for me if he knows what he is doing. Ofcourse Some said "for them good sex is only with bigger", others disagree.
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Wed, 04-19-2006 - 10:04am

Well, regular on all fours doggy works for me as well as laying flat on my stomach with a pillow under my hips or leaning over the edge of the bed, as my DH enters from behind. He will hold himself up by his arms when I'm lying down though so I don't get crushed in the process. Seems as though rear entry targets the g-spot best for me personally.

But riding higher in the missionary position also does the job if I keep my legs down.

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Wed, 04-19-2006 - 10:46am
The truth is that's probably how most women feel about penis size BUT when men see any discussion on the subject, many automatically assume that it's important to ALL of us because it is to a few. The discussion alone seems to bring out the doubt.
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Wed, 04-19-2006 - 5:22pm

wow...that got me going just reading...very good answers!!!

ang

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Wed, 04-19-2006 - 5:29pm

{{The truth is that's probably how most women feel about penis size BUT when men see any discussion on the subject, many automatically assume that it's important to ALL of us because it is to a few}}

I do think that is the problem...that the few that demand a bigger penis are overshadowing those of us who will take (with pleasure) any size you have if you are just as concerned about our pleasure as you are about yours. I would venture to say that many many women orgasm more often from oral than penetration anyway.
How do you ladies feel about that one?
I would take oral over penetration if I had to choose. and for me, penetration without oral is not very satisfying. I need oral for the maximum satisfaction.

ang

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Wed, 04-19-2006 - 5:57pm
For me and my DH, oral is very important. I love the intimacy of intercourse, but we do indulge in oral only nights very often. Intercourse without clitoral stimulation is pleasurable, but not enough to get me to orgasm.
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Thu, 04-20-2006 - 2:17am
<<>> As it has been said over & over again on these boards, your statment may be true for 80% of the female population, but then there's us odd ducks: I don't ever recall orgasming through oral (though I love it and want it 24/7 - just never crested over the peak). Clit stimulation has only resulted in O's when I'm touching it (some men just don't understand "don't take your finger off it! Just keep rubbing it - harder!) and for me it always brings on this deep desire to be "pumped". So I am that odd 20% who get more from penetration than oral or clit. In discussing my lack of Oral O, current man has guaranteed that he'll has to do something about that and of couse I replied "you promise?!" :)
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Thu, 04-20-2006 - 8:22am
Tish, you are amazing!
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Thu, 04-20-2006 - 10:10am

#1 we always hear its not the size, but what you do with it that counts, but we never hear what it is that they mean EXACTLY by "what you do with it"..Ladies please enlighten us.

I'll answer this based on my opinions and experience.

-Angle of penetration - some angles hit the g-spot really well, others hardly go near it. Just be changing the tilt of the pelvis as you go in can make that angle a whole lot better. Or altering the position entirely. e.g. If I'm on top, it's pretty good. But if I place my feet on the bed, knees together, he grabs my arms and holds my weight as I lean back, the angle, with deep grinding just drives me crazy. Sit up a bit during missionary and lift our butts, or put a pillow underneath. Leaning back on your feet changes the angle.

-Grinding vs thrusting. We don't just want to be jack-hammered. I also like it to be mixed up with some intense grinding - deeply penetrate, hold it in there, and then move the hips around. It's like the penis touches parts that it wouldn't otherwise.

-Speed, and how long a guy can thrust in and out before he has to stop and settle down a bit. There's nothing worse than being right on the brink of orgasm, and then all of a sudden the guy stops. Especially if it keeps happening! In cases like that, I prefer slower sex, so that the guy can pace themselves better, perhaps speeding up towards the end. I don't have a problem if you need to stop, but if you have to stop just before I reach my peak, it frustrates the hell out of me, and takes me ages to get back to that point again. Once I've gone over the edge, I'm lucky enough I experience multiple orgasms easily, and a guy can stop as much has he needs to at that point. It's just getting to the first one that can be a bit tricky.

They're the main ones for me.

 


 


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Thu, 04-20-2006 - 3:53pm
Well, she obviously was cruel and tasteless enough to inform you of his stats or you wouldn't know. Good riddance to bad garbage, I say. Find someone with more character next time. Good luck to you, Phillip.