What size would you prefer
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| Thu, 04-13-2006 - 6:42pm |
I was talking with DH a long time ago about penis size. Guys are very concerned about this evidently...even guys with pretty nice sized things are. I have been with some nice ones and they still wondered if it was big enough...The question I asked DH was...how big do guys think WE want? He said that he always thought most girls would want 8 inches long and about 6 inches or more around...I have to say that for me that is a little too big on a day to day basis. I have had a 10x6 incher and it is amazing...but if I had to choose which one my DH had...I would choose 7x5+...I don't prefer that huge thing...although I can have fun with it. I like one I can get in my mouth real nice too. But I will tell you that if the 10 inch guy couldn't go down well...then I would take 4 incher who could any day of the week...and this should go without saying but I have to be into the guy no matter what size he is and his size doesn't determine how much I like him. We feel love from our hearts not from how big your thing is. SO he asked me this:
All things being equal if I had a choice of penis size, what would I go with? So this is my question to the other girls out there... remember, all things being equal. Kind of like you could order a guy part by part....Let me answer first so that you will see where I am coming from.
Ok...Here goes:
For me, I prefer 7 inches long and 5 1/2 inches around (DH), to me, that is perfectly BIG. and I think of it as big...not average. I like average too...I can have some gooood fun with average (5x4.5)...I've had much bigger and smaller. So, this is just what I prefer (7x5.5). It fits in my p***y really really nice...and it fits in my mouth just right and those are the only places I tend to put it...I want all the guys out there to know that most of us girls wouldn't dump you if you had a 4 inch one. We would very much like it however if you could please us with other parts of your body. We want to know that you love to give us pleaure too...I for one am most satisfied with oral. I cum when a guy goes down on me but he does have to know what he is doing (read up on it if you don't). I don't cum everytime through penetration <--I have cum that way and it is amazing but the best orgasm I ever had was DH going down on me and right when I was cumming he put two fingers inside me and wiggled them around all crazy pressing up against the front part of my wall, this started something for me...now it's everytime. I was in a place at that time that no penis alone could take me. I attacked him after that and gave him a bj that he would remember today if you asked him about it! I was very thankful. So with that said. All things being equal:
What size would you prefer?

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Two questions for the ladies.....Okay Hump, here's my answers.
#1 we always hear its not the size, but what you do with it that counts, but we never hear what it is that they mean EXACTLY by "what you do with it"..Ladies please enlighten us.
Why does that bother you and why do you regret never having another man enter you?
{{In discussing my lack of Oral O, current man has guaranteed that he'll has to do something about that and of couse I replied "you promise?!" :)}}
I hope this guy gives you everything he has...tell him to keep his finger there and do it harder...whatever it takes to get you there. I hope you can experience an oral orgasm. Can you do it for yourself? some guys do need some detailed coaching...and the secure guys don't mind the directions at all.
good luck,
ang
{{When you have the best, why regret something that couldn't even compare to what you have now? }}
You post really hit me hard (in a good way), Tish,...I don't know what it's like to have been with only one man, but I sure wish I could. That is something you can never get back. There has to be something unspeakably special about having only one lover. I do wish I knew that. As crazy as I have been before, I think I would trade it all for that one true love that came from the start. I do envy you for that. that is something so worth holding on to. For us women, there is something great about wild sex but the really aren't words to describe how much better LOVE makes sex and having that LOVE from the start with one guy has to be incredibly special...Does that make sense? I don't know...I just feel that loss...But we are we are...and it doesn't help to dwell...but for those of you girls out there who think it's best to have many partners...I, for one, would like to know different.
thanks for the insight, tish.
ang
Leaving my marriage taught me how to climax via clit stimulation. I tried dildos, but they only reminded me of how much I missed having a man in my life (aka in my vagina-LOL). I love oral and my hip/pelvic movements show that it pleases me very much, however, it's never caused me the intense peak that IC Os or clit Os give me. The sensations subside more than peak, and then they'll raise again and then subside again, but no Peak! One of my ONS (who became a 2NS) claimed I climaxed almost the entire time he was down there, but I disagreed with him because there was no crest or peak, just intense pleasure that makes me want to bury my head into the headboard/mattress. It's amazing how far an overweight body can arch! :)
Now inregards to what you wrote Tish: <<>> <<<...I, for one, would like to know different.>>>. I have several friends who have had only one partner and they,like Caroline, wondered about having a different man/penis in their life and a few actually acted on their desires. It's very hard to standby and watch them feel horrible inside becasue of what they did (they do/did love their husbands- it was just a libido issue with husband). One got divorced, one got infected, and the third sits and watches her husband do to her what she did to him.
IMO, we females need to take responsibility for our own sexual life - meaning that you're sexual only when you want to be and only with the men you choose (aka, not just because he expects it or wants it). I've had two ONS, one husband for 17 years and one current man, yet the only one I regret the most is my marriage and that's because I had to lose it. Losing that one love hurts like hell yet fighting to keep it was also hell. I say embrace where you've been and embrace where you are today knowing, that if you're lucky, you'll always have tomorrow!
Hey allnaturalgrrl!
At the outset of this post you decribed me pretty well - 4" but very good at oral. I have NEVER had a lover not come back for seconds or thirds or fourths or.....
My current lover has had 9"+ and she tells me honestly that she thinks all the guys before "were boys" in comparison to our lovemaking. She's sounds alot like you do allnaturalgrrrl.
Thanks!
Blonde
<<inregards to what you wrote Tish: <<>> <<<...I, for one, would like to know different.>>>
Tish, I know you didn't write that. My statement of <<>>, was pertaining to what Allnaturalgrrrl wrote in her post to you. Maybe I should have typed "to what you wrote TO Tish" - but sometimes the fingers, eyes and brain don't work well togther!
PS: I'm sending prayers your way - do take care of each other!
P.S. We have a open marriage
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