What size would you prefer
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| Thu, 04-13-2006 - 6:42pm |
I was talking with DH a long time ago about penis size. Guys are very concerned about this evidently...even guys with pretty nice sized things are. I have been with some nice ones and they still wondered if it was big enough...The question I asked DH was...how big do guys think WE want? He said that he always thought most girls would want 8 inches long and about 6 inches or more around...I have to say that for me that is a little too big on a day to day basis. I have had a 10x6 incher and it is amazing...but if I had to choose which one my DH had...I would choose 7x5+...I don't prefer that huge thing...although I can have fun with it. I like one I can get in my mouth real nice too. But I will tell you that if the 10 inch guy couldn't go down well...then I would take 4 incher who could any day of the week...and this should go without saying but I have to be into the guy no matter what size he is and his size doesn't determine how much I like him. We feel love from our hearts not from how big your thing is. SO he asked me this:
All things being equal if I had a choice of penis size, what would I go with? So this is my question to the other girls out there... remember, all things being equal. Kind of like you could order a guy part by part....Let me answer first so that you will see where I am coming from.
Ok...Here goes:
For me, I prefer 7 inches long and 5 1/2 inches around (DH), to me, that is perfectly BIG. and I think of it as big...not average. I like average too...I can have some gooood fun with average (5x4.5)...I've had much bigger and smaller. So, this is just what I prefer (7x5.5). It fits in my p***y really really nice...and it fits in my mouth just right and those are the only places I tend to put it...I want all the guys out there to know that most of us girls wouldn't dump you if you had a 4 inch one. We would very much like it however if you could please us with other parts of your body. We want to know that you love to give us pleaure too...I for one am most satisfied with oral. I cum when a guy goes down on me but he does have to know what he is doing (read up on it if you don't). I don't cum everytime through penetration <--I have cum that way and it is amazing but the best orgasm I ever had was DH going down on me and right when I was cumming he put two fingers inside me and wiggled them around all crazy pressing up against the front part of my wall, this started something for me...now it's everytime. I was in a place at that time that no penis alone could take me. I attacked him after that and gave him a bj that he would remember today if you asked him about it! I was very thankful. So with that said. All things being equal:
What size would you prefer?

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{{{Hey allnaturalgrrl!
At the outset of this post you decribed me pretty well - 4" but very good at oral. I have NEVER had a lover not come back for seconds or thirds or fourths or.....
My current lover has had 9"+ and she tells me honestly that she thinks all the guys before "were boys" in comparison to our lovemaking. She's sounds alot like you do allnaturalgrrrl.
Thanks!
Blonde}}}
That is a perfect post, Blonde!! I hope all guys out there read this and take it to heart. I know exactly what your current gf means...it is a very good comparison of boys to men. This is what I hoped to get out of this discussion. It could stop here today and I would be glad. you got it going on!!! I wish you all the best!!
ang
Wow!
We have a poster who has only been with one man who is very happy about it.
A poster who has only been with one man who wishes she had had others.
and a poster who has been with several men who wishes she had only been with one.
As long as you are very happy with the one you're with, why does it matter?
It seems to me the only time this could be a problem is if you have only been with one, and let curiousity/ speculation/ longing about others interfere with your happiness with the one you're with. Or if you feel some past lover was better than the one you're with now.
DW and I are very fortunate in this. We both had quite a few partners before( in her case two fairly long-term husbands) and we both agree that NO ONE even came close to the pleasure, happiness, and satisfaction we have with each other. So we have the "best case" scenario.
And since size is the topic here, I might add that DW had three "big" lovers in the past ( one was her husband of 10 years)and they were definitely uncomfortable and she didn't enjoy sex with them and never orgasmed. I'm average and she orgasms every time, several times with me.
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