What u wished your mom told u about sex?

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Registered: 09-07-2007
What u wished your mom told u about sex?
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Thu, 11-01-2007 - 10:22pm

Hello all,


I wanted to know what you wished your mom told you about sex? For me it is:


1)Your clitoris is your pleasure button. If it doesn't get any action, you may not get any satisfaction!


2)What does an orgasm feel like?


3)Oral sex is fine. It's not freaky or slutty to go down on a man. Its one of the best things that can be done to you or your partner.


4)Masturbation doesn't cause blindess, infertility etc. It is how you learn your body sexually.


5)Lastly, sex should be fun and enjoyable, not something you do just to keep a man. You have the right to receive pleasure from sex. It's not dirty or bad. It's can be extremely good!


Chelle-

Amour-Propre

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Thu, 11-01-2007 - 10:50pm
Well, my mom has always been a bit uptight about sex. I would have loved for her to at least once mention that she enjoyed it. While she was uptight about it, there have been a couple of times when she's been a little more relaxed (a drink or two), when she exhibited signs that she may have enjoyed it once or twice.






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Registered: 02-17-2007
Sat, 11-03-2007 - 5:02pm
My Mom never talked to me about sex, and I have often felt that I knew more about it than she does.

 

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Registered: 02-09-2006
Sat, 11-03-2007 - 6:00pm

She never told me a single thing.

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Registered: 08-04-2007
Mon, 11-05-2007 - 1:19am
That penises come in all different sizes and shapes and that there is nothing wrong with masturbation.
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Registered: 03-08-2004
Mon, 11-05-2007 - 7:27am

My parents were very open about sex (all kinds of sex), masturbation, the female/male anatomy and the sexual response system, STDs, birth control, the physical and emotional sides of sex..........the whole nine yards.

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Registered: 09-13-2006
Tue, 11-06-2007 - 2:30am

Mostly stuff about my own anatomy, although, in her defense, she probably didn't know or have the vocabulary.


When I was about three, after a bath,

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Registered: 01-17-2007
Tue, 11-06-2007 - 10:27am
My mom was always very open about sex, even to the point of me having pre=marital sex. We talked about masturbation and she told me it was fine to explore myself, but I wish she told me that it would be fun to enjoy it in front of others especially the one you love. I never masturbated in front of my husband for the first 20 years we were married and now that I do we found out that it can be wonderful