What is a vagina supposed to look like?

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Registered: 03-11-2007
What is a vagina supposed to look like?
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Sun, 03-11-2007 - 6:32am
I have always been a bit worried about what my vagina looks like to a guy because I have always felt like my outer lips are too long or wrinkled up. Recently my worring has increased though because I have started seeing a guy who only had sex with one other girl one time before me and he's never really looked down there. I'm pregnant now so its getting somewhat difficult to shave down there and I want to ask him for his help shaving because I absolutely can not stand hair there on me but I'm worried about the way my lips look. It looks to me like I have had sex with a lot of guys but I really haven't and as long as I can remember my lips have always looked like that. Do I have anything to worry about? Should I be self conscious about this? I know every girl don't look the same there but the thought of him looking there and it not being what he expects scares me. Please help me!
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Registered: 05-16-2004
Sun, 03-11-2007 - 6:50am

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The things we find to worry about........ I don't think there is such a thing as an ugly pu*** to a guy. You just need to make sure he doesn't get too nervous playing with a razor down there. :-)

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Registered: 03-11-2007
Sun, 03-11-2007 - 6:57am
I'm mainly concerned that he will think that I have been with a lot of guys because to me it looks stretched out but I really haven't and considering that he has only been with me and one other girl I really don't want him to think bad of me. LOL To me it looks like it was blown up and then deflated if that makes sense (just the lips anyways). So do you really think I don't have anything to worry about?
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Registered: 12-19-2006
Sun, 03-11-2007 - 8:20am

Each woman looks different, and I don't think the look changes based on the number of times you have sex or the number of partners you have. The hymen will not longer be there, but that can happen prior to having sex anyway.

To get a good idea of everything there and how it should look, visit www.the-clitoris.com. You will see all shapes and sizes, where everything is, and how everything works. Your BF may enjoy the site with you and learn some things as well.



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Registered: 04-23-2004
Sun, 03-11-2007 - 9:10am

The size and shape of your vaginal lips


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Registered: 12-12-2006
Sun, 03-11-2007 - 1:12pm

It's not your vagina, it's your vulva. The vagina is inside you, and you can't "see" it.

Inner and outer lips come in all sizes and shapes and colors. They're all different, and any guy who thinks they should all look the same has a lot to learn.

You could have sex with 1000 guys, and it's not going to change anything, including the size of your vagina. Check out the website you were given in another post. Learn about your body and how it works.

If this guy isn't bothered by your pregnancy, what in the world makes you think he would be bothered by what your vulva looks like?