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Registered: 03-28-2005
What was this?
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Fri, 06-22-2007 - 7:13am
Hey everyone,
The other day my guy told me that he'd like to watch me get myself off with one of my toys, so we tried it and it was really really hot, he went crazy for it, however while i was using my toy something happened that hasn't before and although he was majorly turned on by it, i was kind of shocked..when i was using my vibrator, a lot and i mean a lot of "liquid" is all that i can call it squirted out of me.
At first I was quite embarrassed as it shocked me but he got so turned on by it that we just got carried away but i'm still really curious as to what this is...
Has this happpened to anyone else and if so what was it?

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Registered: 12-12-2006
Fri, 06-22-2007 - 8:15am

You ejaculated, because you probably hit your "g" spot!

Yes, it's happened to many women before. Female ejaculation is a large amount of clear liquid, it's not urine, and there's nothing to be embarassed about.

Check it out: www.the-clitoris.com

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Fri, 06-22-2007 - 8:26am

It does sound like female ejaculation (FE), but it really depends on where it came from. FE comes from the urethra, not the vagina. It's usually enough to soak the sheets.

Usually, it is brought on by g-spot stimulation. Also, once you start being able to do this, it's like there is no off switch (LOL) as long as you're getting g-spot stimulation. I know DH finds it a huge turn on too -- not to mention it feels great to me!



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Registered: 05-11-2007
Fri, 06-22-2007 - 8:47am

Definitely sounds like female ejactulation. If your boyfriend understands it he won't be freaked out by it, perfectly normal if you are one of the lucky ones that can do it. I soak the bed every night with my new boyfriend. He happens to be shaped and uses a techique in bed that puts a LOT of stimulation on my g-spot. He loves that he can do that to me and he loves it when I that wet. The link they posted for you tells about it. Get your boyfriend to read it so he doens't freak out and maybe he will try to get you there on his own!

My boyfriend taught me the meaning of continuous orgasm last night with g-spot and clitoral stimulation and that was just with regular i/c ... OMG ... I was already in love with him now I am completely his slave haha! I ending up sleeping in the wet spot though. It was worth it!

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Registered: 07-10-1999
Fri, 06-22-2007 - 10:29am
Female ejaculation- Wikipedia has a good description if you want to find out more about it.
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Registered: 05-21-2007
Fri, 06-22-2007 - 11:51am
This used to happen with my previous gf. Out of many girls, she's the only one I have ever had do this. I never really saw it, it's just that when we were going for it, all of a sudden there would be this huge wet spot under her. It didn't squirt out, to my knowledge. It was odorless and colorless, and I definitely do not believe it was urine because it was slightly slippery as I recall. That being said, it really made a mess.
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Fri, 06-22-2007 - 12:49pm

Sounds like she was one of the lucky ones then! Its definitely not urine, I remember thinking that when it first happened to me but it didn't smell other than maybe slightly musky and it was slippery as you described. They believe it comes from the residual prostate gland that all women possess (in some it is more sensitive and at times, more developed, than others) and is related to male ejactulation fluid (although not the same). That gland is located around the urinary tract usually just above the uthera opening up to the bladder although the size and location can vary in individuals. Thus pressure or stimulation of the front wall of the vagina stimulates that gland and estentially causes ejactulation of fluid that builds up in the gland during sexual arousal. That can be up to 2 pints of fluid. That's a LOT of fluid although most of the time it isn't that much. I think my boyfriend must of gotten close to that out of me last night though lol and he said that was a quickie! Anyway, the male prostrate gland is what creates most of the fluid during male ejactulation. There's some good articles out there about FE. I read all I can find out about it because its one of my favorite types of orgasms. With clitoral and g-spot stimulation I finally understand what a 10 minute orgasm feels like too ... dang I got it bad for the man that can do that to me lol. Thank goodness I love everything else about him too !!

There is a full article on it at www.the-clitoris.com that explains it pretty well.

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Registered: 08-16-2006
Fri, 06-22-2007 - 2:12pm
Dang two of my biggest turn ons, watching a lady get her own O and FE, what a dream come true! Oops spelled come wrong I think,lol.
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Registered: 03-28-2005
Fri, 06-22-2007 - 3:14pm
I don't think it turned him off coz he pretty much leapt on top of me was just curious as to what it was, didn't think it was urine anyway..
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Registered: 03-04-2007
Fri, 06-22-2007 - 7:25pm

To tami-kins or whoever else can help! This is what the last reply said:

"....I read all I can find out about it because its one of my favorite types of orgasms. With clitoral and g-spot stimulation >>>>I finally understand what a 10 minute orgasm feels like <<<< too ... dang I got it bad for the man that can do that to me lol. Thank goodness I love everything else about him too !!......."

Orgasms last for 10 minutes????

I have never experienced one with a guy and I hope I have already when I masturbate, but I can only tolerate it for not even 10-20 seconds!!! 21 seconds the most. The feeling gets so intense that I need to stop otherwise I feel like I'm going to faint or collapse.

Does it really last that long? How can you people stand it? It must be sojmething like a person tolerating pain or people who are afraid of mice or bugs. Some are and some can step on a bug and pick it up with her bare hands to throw in the garbage.

I must be the one of the weak people who scream at the SIGHT of a bug!!

Is there anyone else like me who stops after 10-20 seconds?

Thanks

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Registered: 11-13-2006
Fri, 06-22-2007 - 10:42pm

I know the feeling - but i have found - b/c i only O with a vibrator (well, when alone - b/c i DO O with finger/g-spot stim easil, by my partner) - that i can keep going after that inital O, but i have to vary the stimulation, or turn it down, or move to a different spot on my clitoris. (my vibe is perfect for this b/c it has a dial you can change with one hand to increase or decrease stim).

During a "session" by myself, it usually lasts 30min - 1 hr, & i never have less than 4 O's, usually 5-6, even 7. Some are blow me away ones, some are small & relaxing. I would say that the longest one I have had continuously has been maybe 1 minute, but then I can have 2 or 3 more within a few minutes more. So maybe some people count the up & down & having 4 or 5 in say 10 minutes, over & over, as 1? I dont know - i count them as seperate. I always thing "ok, i am running late, I will just have ONE" - but then i think "ok, just ONE more " & it ends up an hour long! lol

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