What was it?

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Registered: 12-26-2003
What was it?
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Mon, 08-08-2005 - 7:59pm

I was laying in the bed with my guy after we had dry sex. He had on boxer shorts (we have never had sex with each other) and when I went to lay down I saw something on his upper thigh. His boxers were able to cover it up though. It looked like a mole but I couldn't really tell because it was dark in the room...but the mole or whatever it was moved. It was about the size of a penny...but it kinda hung off of his leg and moved.

Could that have been a wart? I mean, I've never heard of warts getting on the upper thigh, but still on the leg, like that.

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Registered: 10-18-2001
In reply to: baby_girl24
Mon, 08-08-2005 - 8:51pm

It moved?

I have absolutely no idea what it might have been. Your experience sounds a little bit like a script for a scary horror movie.

Maybe it was a mole. Maybe it was a birthmark. Maybe it was belly button lint floating around. Maybe it was the end of his penis and the light was playing tricks on you? Maybe it was a barely glimpsed testicle?

I don't know what else it would be.

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Registered: 04-23-2004
In reply to: baby_girl24
Mon, 08-08-2005 - 9:14pm

It could be a mole, a skin tag, a wart, why don't you ask him?


~Tish

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Registered: 07-26-2005
In reply to: baby_girl24
Mon, 08-08-2005 - 11:42pm

1.) You saw something that was covered by his boxer shorts? If it was covered, how did you see it?

2.) It looked like a mole, but it moved? Moles don't "move". Again, if it was covered by his shorts....how did you see it?

3.) You never heard of a wart on the upper thigh, but still on the leg? UH, isn't the upper thigh the leg? Warts can be ANYWHERE.

4.) If it moved, I'd have swatted it! It might have been a king sized crab!

5.) If you know him well enough to have sex with him (dry or wet) then wouldn't you know him well enough to ask what was moving under his shorts?

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Registered: 08-08-2005
In reply to: baby_girl24
Tue, 08-09-2005 - 12:48am
does dry sex hurt? i tried putting something in my vagina once when it wasn't wet and it hurt. why was you dry? doesn't your bf turn you on and make you wet? you should've killed the moving thing- i bet it was a roach- ewwwww. don't have sex with him again- he has creepy crawlers and he doesn't make you wet
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Registered: 04-23-2004
In reply to: baby_girl24
Tue, 08-09-2005 - 7:53am

Dry sex there is no penetration and it doesn't mean she wasn't lubricated.


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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: baby_girl24
Tue, 08-09-2005 - 11:28am
Maybe it was a bug. Sounds like it was the very tip of his penis. My curiosity would kill me until I asked though! Expecially since you said it MOVED!


Edited 8/9/2005 2:32 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001
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Registered: 07-12-2005
In reply to: baby_girl24
Tue, 08-09-2005 - 12:21pm
If I were you, I would ask him if he has a birthmark or a mole there. Tell him what you posted here...that you thought you saw something move and you haven't been able to get it out of your mind. If you are going to have any kind of relationship with this guy, you need to be able to communicate with him. Especially over something like this. Your eyes could have been playing tricks on you since it was dark.
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Registered: 04-25-2005
In reply to: baby_girl24
Wed, 08-10-2005 - 6:11pm
EEECK! Sweetie if whatever you saw moved then I highly doubt it was a mole. Id think that it was either a. a bug b. a lint ball of some sort c. the head of his penis. And since it was dark you werent able to tell. Next time you are together doing whatever .. play with the lights on .. then you can see if its still there or not. OR just talk to him. And the advice "Twiggy" gave you wasnt very good or nice. We are here to help and be there .. and shes telling you to basically dump the guy because he has "creep crawlers". ( If Twiggy is reading this .. are you 18 ? If your under age you shouldnt be on this site ) Anyways .. just talk to your hunnie or just wait for the next time you hook up.